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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They voted for it, so why would they be mad?

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I challenge your premise: They are mad. Not all of them, but plenty of people are upset and angry. More to follow the way things are going: The worse things get, the angrier they'll get.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They're rasict and it's exactly what they want.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

If you're keeping your self from being angry because the rascist want you to be angry you're still basing your behavior based on what racists want.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The combination of hopelessness and misinformation is very powerful

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Probably true

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

We are mad and we’re getting madder. We just haven’t hit the fever pitch yet. There hasn’t been a catalyst.

But eventually there will be one and we’ll be able to coalesce around it. Seems like Moscow Musk is starting to be the foil, but so could a number of other things: egg prices, bid flu, new Hoovervilles. Something will make it happen.

Now is the time to plan and prepare.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Decades of very effective propaganda combined with intrinsic ideological biases.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A lot of people are mad. A lot of people are tired. A lot of people have lost hope. A lot of people feel betrayed. A lot of people see no path for change. A lot of people want to just be left alone.

To me that’s what this is really about. I’m so tired of having to be so actively(or passively) involved with politics and have the “party” I support constantly drop the ball. It’s so incredibly exhausting putting this much mental wherewithal into people and ideas that are just tossed aside.

I feel like everything is turning to shit so fast and “this is what people wanted” cause they supposedly voted for him; but I feel like the time to really rally and strike isn’t here yet.

It still feels like everyone is getting their bearings and figuring it out. You can see people are starting to plan. It’s clear we can’t just REACT. There needs to be clear plans and action to stop this and prevent it from happening again.

I think a lot of people are very angry, but we need to focus and formulate a proper way to retaliate.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Who says we aren’t? Do you know how big this country is, and how much money it takes to fly to DC to protest? Do you understand that nobody wants to die for taking a shot at Trump or Elon?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I don't think many outside of here do.

Many people here stay in the place they were born. Even when they hate it. It's hard moving and leaving everything behind. It's tough moving to a new part of the country without any contacts.

I've relocated a few times, there's always a culture shock. You'd think it would be pretty much the same everywhere due to our saturated commercial culture, but it really is different everywhere. Sometimes just a few hours of separation between places can be two completely different worlds

We're a nation full of smaller countries, cultures and customs. It's hard to see that on the outside looking in due to so many of us parroting things online, as well as the media that we distribute throughout the world (movies, tv, music ect)

But it's a VAST nation of many different ways of life.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

You'd think with that username...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I also wonder this but then the people that voted for trump are very happy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Nahh. I know those people. They've never felt a bit of happiness in their life. They might feel satisfaction when others are pained but these are truly miserable people.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Meh, I think disagreeing with them doesn’t make them miserable. A lot of family voted for them and they aren’t “trumpers” or miserable. Probably happier than me. That’s kind of wishful thinking on your part.

Edit:noticing your relevant username gave me a chuckle ;D

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They are so mad that democrats weren't a sufficiently exciting alternative to an outright fascist entente. Livid, they are.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Why are we still talking about this? I'm over it. I'm over the democrats too. I'd sit with the Palestinians at lunch time rather than the DNC any day, anyway.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

I rest my case, I suppose.

I'm definitely over being emotionally invested in the consequences of their entitlement within the US. I, unfortunately, like the rest of the world, don't get to be over the consequences elsewhere.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The chance at taking freedom and everything from others first.

Edit: that quote and story have disappeared except for some Nigerian news site still on MSN.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Stupid snake, what would you do with a boot?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Visibly queer minority here! I’m probably gonna go to jail sometime in the next year for being trans in public. Until I do though, I’ve been lobbying state congress about some of the bills on the docket.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Please reach out if things get desperate. I probably can't help but sure as shit would try.

[–] [email protected] 111 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Nothing. Everyone I know is very mad about it. The people who aren't mad about it aren't mad because they're being lied to and told that all their racism, homophobia, xenophobia and just plain mean spiritedness is somehow normal and good.

I assure you that anyone who isn't a monster is very unhappy about the whole situation

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

I dunno, I walk through my day and most people's demeanor hasn't changed in the slightest. The way we suppress all this is very severancesque. Like sure we have our outies memory's but seems we don't have their emotions.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I walk through my day and most people’s demeanor hasn’t changed in the slightest

I'm unhappy and angry at the situation. But, am I supposed to mope around all day or have depressing conversations with everyone I meet? Should I start fighting every Trump supporter in my small town?

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I don't know. I just know maybe we hold back when we shouldn't. Doesn't that just demonstrate their control over us?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Because most people are blissfully ignorant. They're going about their day and if anything they're possibly reminded that Trump is president by some news channel they pass over on their way to the newest true crime show or whatever the hell is on tictok.

Most people couldn't be forced to care if you had a gun to their heads as evidenced by our disgusting voting numbers. "Didn't vote" would win every election if it was a candidate.

Most people "aren't political" which is nice if only politics didn't affect your life so deeply. :/

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I guess that's true but who is watching the news then? Who is posting online?

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

It gets said over and over but the country is huge and your experience can vary greatly. If you are a govt employee work is likely more chaotic, some more than others. Telework people coming back to the office, looming layoffs, people resigning/staying, big organizational shifts etc.

If you know a person deported of who may be deported you are probably very concerned for them and the world feels turned upside down.

But for most people the gas prices are about the same, groceries are about the same and their life is about the same. If it wasn't for the news/internet most people probably couldn't tell the difference between administrations so far. It takes a big event you can't easily ignore (Covid 19, Hurricane Helene, LA fires) for even ONE REGION of the country to focus on a problem for a while.

And even then if you are outside of that area people probably won't change their routine beyond posting about it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

But conditions everywhere are bad. Just because we've grown use to it doesn't mean the constant drain on your heart, body, and mind has gone away. I've never lived in a time where the world around me wasn't eriely cold and uncaring.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I guess it's storytime! The rural area I grew up in was full of unionized industry jobs that shut down in the 80s, and then the auto industry followed in the 2000s. Many moved and for those that stayed life had sucked for a long while.

But the local mall stayed relevant (there's not a whole lot else to do) and is now being filled with all kinds of new restauraunts and stores where old dead ones were. This was to meet demand since electric vehicle factories were built as well as amazon warehouses and other stuff. Then the taxes led to libraries and schools being built and upgraded.

Now it's not all sunshine and rainbows of course but for the people there the world seemed cold and uncaring for decades. Now in their eyes it's starting to come back and the federal government had little to do with it. I guess what I'm saying is that it's all pretty subjective

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I AM mad. So are my close friends and family

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I’m plenty mad but every solution short of REDACTED feels like a waste of time.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Even suggesting REDACTED repulses the people who it would serve the most. Completely uninformed and lack of critical thinking.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I'd do REDACTED if everyone else was down. I'm so bored of this mouse trap they built. I'd literally do anything else.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

own the libs is more important than progress

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

The delusion that their party will someday fix it

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Busy with day to day affairs, gotta pay rent/mortgage/medical bills, gotta feed the family, gotta keep working, can't take risks, ...

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That sounds like it should make you mad

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

It does, but I'm busy with day to day affairs, gotta pay rent/mortgage/medical bills, gotta feed the family, gotta keep working, can’t take risks, …

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