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My fiance loses stuff all the time so she got a Tile (a locator gadget) for her keys and wallet. It has a phone mode too in the app, and it goes off when activated, even if it's on silent. The trick is you need another phone with the app too, of course, but that's easy enough for us to deal with.
if android, just google "where is my phone" and it will tell you where your phone is and give a button to force it to ring even if silent.
Back in the early days of modern smartphones it was "find my Android". Regardless, either search will still get you where you need to be today. (That is unless of course you've degoogled.)
That's not autism. That's getting spam calls ten to twenty times a day.
This is the main reason I have a smart watch.
Yeah, I'm neither autistic nor do I have ADHD, but I've definitely misplaced my phone. Since grabbing a smart watch for the purpose of fitness, I've discovered the benefit of "find my phone," saving me the step of having to go to my computer and type "where my phone" into the goog.
Same, but my watch has died too, so I have a backup watch.
I don't have autism and I still do that.
i am happy to only have autism. if you get a chance to pick, choose autism
I'm not entirely convinced they are different things
Ha ha I only ever put it on silent when I'm playing music on a Bluetooth speaker so that incoming alerts don't disrupt the music.
I literally never remember to turn it off silent.
If you're on android, try the do not disturb function maybe? it has a timer option so it's automatically back to normal after i.e. an hour or two.
Yeah on iOS I have to put it on focus or else notification sounds keep playing.
Ouch. Way too close to home.
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This is why Find My has been a godsend for me. It'll ring no matter how many layers of Do Not Disturb you put your phone under. It'll still ring (unless the battery has run out, of course).
I plan to set my spouse's number to always audibly ring. Someday it will happen and then I'll never have to search again!
Someday because the spouse is missing or because you can't pull yourself together to set it up?
Hahaha, in this context I can say it's thankfully my inability to do it
I bought an Apple Watch for exercise and the best feature I didn’t know existed is a little button that I can press to audibly ping my phone, even when it’s on silent.
…I get more use out of that than the exercise features nowadays.
Imagine if you didn't have the watch, all those calories burned while searching for your phone...
I feel you, I have a smart watch too. I can see how few steps I've taken, how low my blood oxygen level is, and best of all, how few hours I've slept.
I do that, but then it freaks my cats out.
Admittedly if they weren't sleeping on it, it'd be less of an issue...
Oh my gawd legitimately last night this happened to my partner and myself.
Our cat was NOT happy hahaha
Not officially, but I’m diagnosed ADHD and for now, self-diagnosed autistic
I managed to finally save up enough money to put myself on a waitlist to get called to setup an appointment to start my autism assessment in several months from now, so…yay?
Absolutely yay!
Off topic: Google's "find my phone" bypasses silent mode.
Also, you can access the website from any device with a web browser. The same goes for Apple.
It also shows its location on a map if you have tracking on, which was useful the time it slipped under my truck's floor mat.
Ringing your phone from my watch is one of the greatest features. On the Apple Watch just a tap of the button rings it, pressing and holding flashes the LED.
Plus now the watch and the phone have the how far away the phone is thing and it works great.
The Tile app (you can use without buying anything) can turn on the ringer and set full volume. My partner and I use it to find each other's phones. There are probably other apps that do that, too.
Both iOS and android have this built in. There’s no need for a 3rd party app to do it.
Tut tut, achually... Android doesn't have it built in, it's bundled with the Google package. Witch is included in virtually all android phones so I know what you mean.
I use /e/os, so to me the Google package is a third party system and I use open source applications to access parts of the Google infrastructure without having to have a Google account.
The downside is that not all Google features are available. Like find my phone functions when there's no associated account. But I can text my phone with a secret codeword and it'll send back it's GPS coordinates so that's something I suppose.
I figured out recently that you can set individual contacts to ignore silent mode, so they always ring. This is extreme power, so be careful who you choose.
Only my partner has this honor. mostly so she can help me find my phone lol (and emergencies obviously, but we are rarely apart outside of work)
Exactly the same here, lol.
just autism, but darn this situation happens too many times ;-;
I'm an autistic sex addict. Does that count?
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