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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

if android, just google "where is my phone" and it will tell you where your phone is and give a button to force it to ring even if silent.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Back in the early days of modern smartphones it was "find my Android". Regardless, either search will still get you where you need to be today. (That is unless of course you've degoogled.)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

That's not autism. That's getting spam calls ten to twenty times a day.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

This is the main reason I have a smart watch.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

Yeah, I'm neither autistic nor do I have ADHD, but I've definitely misplaced my phone. Since grabbing a smart watch for the purpose of fitness, I've discovered the benefit of "find my phone," saving me the step of having to go to my computer and type "where my phone" into the goog.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

Same, but my watch has died too, so I have a backup watch.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

I don't have autism and I still do that.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

i am happy to only have autism. if you get a chance to pick, choose autism

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

I'm not entirely convinced they are different things

[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Ha ha I only ever put it on silent when I'm playing music on a Bluetooth speaker so that incoming alerts don't disrupt the music.

I literally never remember to turn it off silent.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

If you're on android, try the do not disturb function maybe? it has a timer option so it's automatically back to normal after i.e. an hour or two.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago

Yeah on iOS I have to put it on focus or else notification sounds keep playing.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 15 hours ago

Ouch. Way too close to home.

upvote

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago

This is why Find My has been a godsend for me. It'll ring no matter how many layers of Do Not Disturb you put your phone under. It'll still ring (unless the battery has run out, of course).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I plan to set my spouse's number to always audibly ring. Someday it will happen and then I'll never have to search again!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Someday because the spouse is missing or because you can't pull yourself together to set it up?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Hahaha, in this context I can say it's thankfully my inability to do it

[–] [email protected] 9 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I bought an Apple Watch for exercise and the best feature I didn’t know existed is a little button that I can press to audibly ping my phone, even when it’s on silent.

…I get more use out of that than the exercise features nowadays.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Imagine if you didn't have the watch, all those calories burned while searching for your phone...

I feel you, I have a smart watch too. I can see how few steps I've taken, how low my blood oxygen level is, and best of all, how few hours I've slept.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I do that, but then it freaks my cats out.

Admittedly if they weren't sleeping on it, it'd be less of an issue...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago

Oh my gawd legitimately last night this happened to my partner and myself.

Our cat was NOT happy hahaha

[–] [email protected] 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Not officially, but I’m diagnosed ADHD and for now, self-diagnosed autistic

I managed to finally save up enough money to put myself on a waitlist to get called to setup an appointment to start my autism assessment in several months from now, so…yay?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago

Absolutely yay!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Off topic: Google's "find my phone" bypasses silent mode.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

It also shows its location on a map if you have tracking on, which was useful the time it slipped under my truck's floor mat.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 16 hours ago

Ringing your phone from my watch is one of the greatest features. On the Apple Watch just a tap of the button rings it, pressing and holding flashes the LED.

Plus now the watch and the phone have the how far away the phone is thing and it works great.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

The Tile app (you can use without buying anything) can turn on the ringer and set full volume. My partner and I use it to find each other's phones. There are probably other apps that do that, too.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Both iOS and android have this built in. There’s no need for a 3rd party app to do it.

https://www.icloud.com/find

https://myaccount.google.com/find-your-phone

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

Tut tut, achually... Android doesn't have it built in, it's bundled with the Google package. Witch is included in virtually all android phones so I know what you mean.

I use /e/os, so to me the Google package is a third party system and I use open source applications to access parts of the Google infrastructure without having to have a Google account.

The downside is that not all Google features are available. Like find my phone functions when there's no associated account. But I can text my phone with a secret codeword and it'll send back it's GPS coordinates so that's something I suppose.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I figured out recently that you can set individual contacts to ignore silent mode, so they always ring. This is extreme power, so be careful who you choose.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Only my partner has this honor. mostly so she can help me find my phone lol (and emergencies obviously, but we are rarely apart outside of work)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago

Exactly the same here, lol.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

just autism, but darn this situation happens too many times ;-;

[–] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago

I'm an autistic sex addict. Does that count?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

You can trigger the ‘find phone’ function on your Apple Watch. The phone will make a sound and your watch shows a live view of how far away the phone is and a general direction.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 19 hours ago (4 children)

Ah yes, for all of the Lemmy FOSS enthusiasts with their Apple products /s :)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago

Hi, that's me.

I love foss, but there's only so much bad UI/UX I can tolerate. Also for my phone I want it to just kinda... phone. (and have a good camera)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

There are ways to do this with android as well

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

Yeah my Garmin can do this on my Android.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 17 hours ago

Lemmy isn’t just for FOSS enthousiasts.

Personally I run Linux/FreeBSD on my servers but use macOS / iOS on my laptop/tablet/phone, best of both worlds.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

You can do a similar thing with Android's find hub thing. IIRC it will also ring even if the phone is in silent mode

[–] [email protected] 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Doesn't it need to be connected to a Google account though? I feel like the same people who don't use Apple also try to steer clear of Google. I promise I'm not trying to intentionally be difficult!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Yeah it does. And I'm in that weird spot where I can't stand apple but still am somewhat ok with Google (mostly due to residual goodwill from their old philosophy if I'm being honest...) as long as I can mostly deprive them of my personal data

[–] [email protected] 13 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Silence, plus DnD, plus everything muted. If my phone emits a sound without my request I have an immediate response to fight the phone back.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

To the subject of original meme, Tile on keys made my life a hundred times easier

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