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I know, this is Actually Infuriating, but ... Also she didn't just leave the now-dead kid in the car, she left two in there to die, but one survived. My guess: with brain damage. "Always Beautiful Medical Spa" FFS. Duck lips were totally worth it.

A baby died after his mother left him and his 2-year-old sibling inside a car while she was getting lip filler at a Bakersfield medical spa on a 101-degree day, authorities said.

It is estimated that Hernandez’s children were in the vehicle without air-conditioning for 90 minutes, wrote Det. Kyle McNabb, noting that the internal temperature of a car can rise to a blistering 143 degrees in just one hour of 100-degree weather.

Hernandez told police she found her baby foaming at the mouth and having an apparent seizure after emerging from her procedure at Always Beautiful Medical Spa, according to the police report. She frantically dialed 911, and both her children were transported to a hospital for treatment.

By the time her 1-year-old arrived at Adventist Health hospital, he wasn’t breathing, had no pulse, his lips were blue, and he had an internal body temperature of 107.2 degrees

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I can barely handle being in a car that has been sitting in the sun for the 5 minutes it takes for the AC to get up to speed.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Now the 20-year-old mother has been charged with one felony count of involuntary manslaughter and two felony counts of willful cruelty to a child, according to court records.

Is it not a specific crime in California/US to leave a child locked in a car?? We don't fluff around with that in Australia. Also have exceptions to property damage laws for bystanders breaking windows.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Most criminal laws are at the state level so it would be a CA law.

UNATTENDED CHILD IN MOTOR VEHICLE SAFETY ACT

There is no need for a seperate law in the event of harm or death since that would just fall under existing harm/death of a child laws.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

She has pleaded not guilty to all charges and is being held in a hot car with no AC in lieu of $1,080,000 bail, according to the Kern County district attorney’s office.

FTFY

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Was it leavitt? Yea, no cumuppance will happen there

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Unfortunately this is a pretty common occurrence. There was a big furor about it about a decade ago with a social media fad called the "hot car challenge" where adults would sit in hot cars turned off in the sun to see how long they could last in them ostensibly to build awareness of the problem, and there were all sorts of helpful tips and design changes made to cars and phones to try to make it more difficult to forget your kids in hot cars. Myself I wonder if any of it had any actual impact because surely the sort of people who leave their kids in hot cars aren't the smartest and probably don't keep up with safety PSAs about the issue.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (12 children)

The left shoe trick - throwing my shoe in the car next to the kid - probably saved my kid's life more than once.

One kind of parents who have these tragedies are tired ones. Which is most parents with small children.

Edit: not relevant in this case, but I'll take any chance to advertise the shoe trick.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (9 children)

As a parent myself it always boggles my mind that people can forget that they have kids in the car with them. I'm always in dad mode when I have any kids with me, so I've never even come close to forgetting a kid in the car. Forgetting to grab the kid's backpack for school sure, but forgetting a whole child in the car?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Unfortunately this is a pretty common occurrence. There was a big furor about it about a decade ago with a social media fad called the "hot car challenge" where adults would sit in hot cars turned off in the sun to see how long they could last in them ostensibly to build awareness of the problem, and there were all sorts of helpful tips and design changes made to cars and phones to try to make it more difficult to forget your kids in hot cars. Myself I wonder if any of it had any actual impact because surely the sort of people who leave their kids in hot cars aren't the smartest and probably don't keep up with safety PSAs about the issue.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

it must be on purpose at this point. how many times does this need to happen before people stop doing it?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is this mildly infuriating? No. This is a joke comm, not a group cry.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago

Almost anyone can have children, but not everyone can be a parent.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

One of my more controversial views is that having children should require a permit, like adoption currently requires, you'd need proof that you are able and willing to raise a child in the environment they deserve to be raised in.

Yes I realize what the downsides would be.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

Bakersfield is a conservative shit show

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Getting lip fillers…the kind of people who should not have children

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

its 101 degrees outside the car, but inside it can reach as much as 130-140f.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Me reading this article:

Huh, California?

Oh, Bakersfield. Say no more

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Yeah, I had to do some work up there recently and it was so depressing.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 days ago

"The car was parked in a space facing west during the hottest part of the day."

Hernandez was getting a lip filler procedure at the Always Beautiful Med Spa Sunday, according to reports. Those same reports say she didn’t check on her children until two and a half hours later.

“In a normal person, it’s not gonna happen,” said Gricelda Anaya.

Anaya works next door and saw people scrambling into the building to try to save the boys.

“What we see on the camera is that they’re trying to put cold water right here on the reception, and it was something very sad that never had to happen.”

Those scrambling people are probably going to have some kind of PTSD now too.

Oh and Dad's in prison for some other unspecified reason.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/crime/never-had-to-happen-court-documents-reveal-horrific-details-in-death-of-1-year-old-in-hot-car/ar-AA1HVbMl

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