Oh I get it completely. There's a bunch of subreddits I miss, my industry I work in which is very niche, leatherworking, heck even the motorcycle community in Lemmy is... lacking.

On the other part you brought in... OH BOY! Unhinged TED talk time.

So I live relatively close to the Royals and the Chiefs stadiums. John Sherman, gas magnate, the owner of the Royals decided he wanted to move the stadium to downtown, where things have been picking up. Specifically he wanted it in the Crossroads where there's a lot of local community shops and everything, because he wanted it near Power and Light district where there's bars and the like which... oh right, he owns a lot of. Troubles came up that the stadium proposals took foooooooorever to even come up, looked like it was drawn on a napkin instead of anything serious, and wanted a tax levy to be put on the city to continue one that still hasn't been paid off for the last time the two stadiums were built. The whole time saying "Look how the stadiums bring business in!"... the area around the two stadiums have managed to keep a Denny's and a Taco Bell alive, the big resort hotel couldn't even survive. Yea... real great for business.

Another trouble is... as I say, I am one of those who actively detests sports... I wish I could find the post, there's an old Reddit post describing what not liking sports was like and used archeology in how it invades everything around you so it's easy to go from "I couldn't care less" to "Okay, I hate this thing now. It is insufferable." I say all that to say, just paying any attention to the news I knew at the time the Royals was the second worst team in the MLB, they were that bad. So they knew they couldn't get this move off the ground so they went to the Chiefs who was the most recent superbowl winner which of course was happy to get money their way, and the ad campaign went out. And despite the Royals/Sherman being the push on getting this going, it was all Chiefs all the time. I literally even got a flier in my mail "The liberals are trying to take away our teams!" paid for by the team push, so yay politics even drug in. The whole time threatening "Well if you don't vote it in, we'll move. Maybe to Kansas (right over the border) or hey, even Tennessee." Thing is, the state remembers St. Louis on the other side had the rams, built them a stadium and whoopsiedoodle they packed up and moved to California leaving a city with a stadium and fuck all to do with it.

So we've got all sorts of issue in state and local level, but holy fuck all the political pressure since the voters turned down the tax is "How can we keep these teams in Missouri!" And it's funny, I said I'd be more okay paying for it if we got ANYTHING out of it... I don't mind paying taxes to keep our zoo going and it's nice I get a hefty discount when I go, but the Royals and Chiefs are giving a nice hearty "go fuck yourself" for us paying taxes so the billionaires have their teams.

On to the "Why are you a fan?" question you brought up. I don't question it... but I've never understood it. I grew up in Arkansas that never had a pro team so college sports was big... I got to hear the "calling the hogs" my entire life and never comprehended the why. Probably because dad was not a sports guy and had the opinion "Why do I want to watch people play a game?" even though he played in high school and I've been pretty much the same. I get the community stuff, and that's fantastic. I've just found a community outside of sports so it doesn't resound to me. The reason I've become so against sports beyond it's completely impossible to ignore it it's so inundated in culture, is the sheer amount of money that goes into it in all levels. High school, if you're one of the "football" schools, your school only has 3-4 sports, all the big stadium ticket getting team sports, the smaller less prestigious schools get more sports like wrestling and the like... guess which situation I ended up in? And watching schools dump money into the sports above all other things like theater, labs, etc. "But it brings in money for the school." Cool cool... so why are we getting asked for a tax levy so the school can build yet another stadium? Repeat this for the college level so the "Hogs can have a proper place to play!" and now the city with pro teams level. And I hear the ticket prices and think I wouldn't pay those prices to see my favorite band... and again, those ticket prices and yet we have to pay for their shit?