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Banned is maybe too far, but why should we as a country allow people to have petty power over meaningless things their neighbors do? Could we ban HOAs from being included in house sales, and every time it's sold the new owners have to opt in?

For the most part, I'm wondering about this in the context of single family homes since for homes like condos, you could make the case that HOAs are useful for shared things like roofs and whatnot. Maybe limit mandatory HOA involvement to things like what's truly necessary and shared and not how tall your grass is?

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[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Why should the fact some people a long time ago have away their power to a dubious political entity, permanently destroy the right to make your own house into a home.

Because people bought into that neighborhood for a reason.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If the reason the new people bought into the neighborhood is that it was managed by a good HOA then they'll sign the contract voluntarily!

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Again, I don't think you understand why the HOA exists. No one joins because they want to be regulated. They join because they want the neighborhood to be regulated.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

Fucked up beyond belief.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The American tradition of telling everyone else what to do and how to behave while not wanting others to tell you what to do and how to behave!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

OMG dude. You can't be serious. Do you just not understand how rules work? The people who join are also, voluntarily "told what to do and how to behave".

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Unless they agree to HOA rules they're not allowed to live in those neighborhoods, access those schools etc.... this is a coercive pressure.

I get that you're part of an HOA board so you think they're great, but for the most part you're part of a system that's a net negative in people's lives and society. See the Jon Oliver video linked above if you ever actually want to evaluate HOA more objectively.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I don't think they're great at all. I'm only on the board to avoid getting fucked. If I could abolish it I would.

That's all besides the point. You cannot have a voluntary HOA. It's completely pointless. No one is going to choose to subject themselves to the rules when no one else has to...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Exactly. They're a scourge. Even you can't abolish the one you're in when you want to. They have to go and this is a great way to do it. All it takes is a few people in a neighborhood to opt out and suddenly the impossible becomes possible and people will be able to disband bad HOAs.

Good ones (if they exist) will stay because everyone will voluntarily join in keeping the community great.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Even you can't abolish the one you're in when you want to.

The community can, collectively.

All it takes is a few people in a neighborhood to opt out

I just explained how and why that's not possible.