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(advice, again) i just messaged my gf asking if it would be better to stay friends, scared she will hate me now. (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

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i’ll refrain from overposting but i’m a bit scared. kayla (20f) is my gf and (idk if she still is) but was a huge trump supporter. she was quite cruel to me because i first dated her as a trans man and she accused me of sexual harassment after we broke up.

we got back together and have been dating for quite some time (about 11 months) but we barely talk. she only plays video games and talks to her friends, so i barely chat with her, she rarely responds, and i don’t use Discord a lot where i chat with her.

i asked if this would work out and if she would prefer it if we were just friends, but im scared that she’ll accuse me of things again and make harassment/slander of me because i said that

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

@drbollocks Here's something that sometimes helps me: Ask yourself, if someone else was in your situation, what would you tell them.

Because honestly, from what you're writing, you don't have much of a relationship to lose, and you seem to be clinging onto something that isn't there, if it ever was.

It's okay to break up with people for any reason or no reason at all, if only for your own peace of mind. Don't stay with someone out of fear.