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[–] [email protected] 47 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

First, 100% a red flag. Even if they wanted to give some sort of "I trust you with my life" sort of video, there's a bunch of better ways to do it. Going for a racist rant makes me think that they're a racist.

Secondly, this is deeply submissive - they're giving you the power to ruin their life. If you want to do that sort of stuff as a couple you should really talk about it first and be on board with receiving that sort of power and responsibility. Entirely possible+reasonable for the receiver to find this shitty because they don't want to make a choice like this, especially if these are truly held beliefs.

The healthy response to this is to send them to a therapist. And definitely dump them if they're actually racist.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 10 hours ago

Subby racist? She clearly wants the colored dick "forced" on her

[–] [email protected] 7 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I don't see how someone could do a racist rant and not be racist. That it is a rant is an important word here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I bet if you tried hard enough you could come up with one

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 32 minutes ago

I think taking any random problem and putting blame on a group of people would be racist. I could spruce it up with the term “nipper” or “kike” and most people would find it racist

I suppose you just don’t find anything racist if you can’t come up with it

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Have you never heard of acting?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Where's the leverage if it's a performance?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 15 minutes ago

I can (and have, many times) dropped a hard-r for comedic effect, even around my black friends, as they have the context to know that I'm not actually the kind of person to use that word normally

If I was recorded and shared to the internet doing so free of context, I would be labelled as a racist shithead immediately and forever