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and there are others who have it worse that i do, so i don't think it's entirely about hardship.
for me: i think it's about experiencing being a stranger to the "tribes" that the people who were close to me belong to. eg. my white-passing family members discluding me from the families they've started with maga-white people; or the leftists groups being wary of me because autism-affected socialization makes them suspect that i'm an infiltrator of some type; or autism support groups that think that i'm not "autistic enough".
don't get me wrong: hardship is definitely part of it; if i had a thousand dollars for every time a manager or interviewer suspected that i was incapable of doing a job because of how i look and/or how i think, i would be a millionaire who wouldn't need to work.
i think it's understanding (or atleast being aware) that social and political hierarchies exist and are perpetually on-guard for outsiders. after all: there are maga brown/black people and gay republicans who are clueless about their places within these hierarchies.