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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Real NNN. Instead of jerking it, have actual sex because those don't count.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

No. Fuck me instead!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Will attempt to get wife on board ✊

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I feel like I have been trying to get mine on board with this our whole marriage now. If you figure out how to convince them let me know lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

We have had some issues with this. In our case, it has mostly been stress related. Really talk to your wife and understand what it is that's causing her to not want to. Maybe even help her figure it out together.

Then you can start to rebuild. Knowing the cause is half the battle.

When you know the cause of the issue, you have to try to mitigate, or eliminate that cause.

But maybe there's not just something "in the way". Maybe there's also something missing that needs to trigger her urge. Maybe start going on dates. Do romantic things together. Maybe do things together, period. Maybe she needs to reconnect. You know, ask her what she needs in order to feel sexual and horny.

Best of luck on your nookie. 💙