this post was submitted on 23 Aug 2024
1084 points (91.2% liked)

Lemmy Shitpost

26702 readers
2692 users here now

Welcome to Lemmy Shitpost. Here you can shitpost to your hearts content.

Anything and everything goes. Memes, Jokes, Vents and Banter. Though we still have to comply with lemmy.world instance rules. So behave!


Rules:

1. Be Respectful


Refrain from using harmful language pertaining to a protected characteristic: e.g. race, gender, sexuality, disability or religion.

Refrain from being argumentative when responding or commenting to posts/replies. Personal attacks are not welcome here.

...


2. No Illegal Content


Content that violates the law. Any post/comment found to be in breach of common law will be removed and given to the authorities if required.

That means:

-No promoting violence/threats against any individuals

-No CSA content or Revenge Porn

-No sharing private/personal information (Doxxing)

...


3. No Spam


Posting the same post, no matter the intent is against the rules.

-If you have posted content, please refrain from re-posting said content within this community.

-Do not spam posts with intent to harass, annoy, bully, advertise, scam or harm this community.

-No posting Scams/Advertisements/Phishing Links/IP Grabbers

-No Bots, Bots will be banned from the community.

...


4. No Porn/ExplicitContent


-Do not post explicit content. Lemmy.World is not the instance for NSFW content.

-Do not post Gore or Shock Content.

...


5. No Enciting Harassment,Brigading, Doxxing or Witch Hunts


-Do not Brigade other Communities

-No calls to action against other communities/users within Lemmy or outside of Lemmy.

-No Witch Hunts against users/communities.

-No content that harasses members within or outside of the community.

...


6. NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.


-Content that is NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.

-Content that might be distressing should be kept behind NSFW tags.

...

If you see content that is a breach of the rules, please flag and report the comment and a moderator will take action where they can.


Also check out:

Partnered Communities:

1.Memes

2.Lemmy Review

3.Mildly Infuriating

4.Lemmy Be Wholesome

5.No Stupid Questions

6.You Should Know

7.Comedy Heaven

8.Credible Defense

9.Ten Forward

10.LinuxMemes (Linux themed memes)


Reach out to

All communities included on the sidebar are to be made in compliance with the instance rules. Striker

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
1084
submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

A quick TLDR of the comment section:

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 months ago (2 children)

My guy, the motivation is right but the thinking is wrong.

You teach your daughter how to spot manipulative behavior, teach her how to stand up for and protect herself, teach your daughter how to respect herself AND others, teach her how to love herself AND others, teach her what a healthy relationship looks like...

Boys will be boys, they will be dumb and horny teenagers and they will try shit, even with the absolute best of dumb horny boy intentions, also teenage lesbians are quite keen on trying shit too. You need to teach them to spot the difference between their first love and someone telling them what they want to hear in order to go up their shirt.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Thanks, but these are open doors. Glad to see there's at least one sensible person in this threat though. I just made a single sentence comment that people read way to much into. Now I'm the world's worst parent and I deserve all the funny comments that attack me personally on issues about which I lie awake at night.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

You teach your daughter how to spot manipulative behavior

Yeah, only do it right. Because some girls have apparently been taught to classify anything they don't understand as that. Sucks being autistic and trying to explain some emotion and being accused of manipulation and ghosted, because that's easier than admitting that sometimes you just don't understand other people as well as you think.

I also hate that folk psychology with "personal borders" (usually asymmetric, quite normal things said to those people are apparently emotional abuse, and quite heavy things from them are just life) and "red flags" (usually applied to autistic people and not applied to literal creepy\insecure behavior) and a few thumb rules which apparently describe anything in a conversation. People employing that also by default consider that everything is fine with them personally.