Off My Chest
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1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
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But how do you steal a diamond? Or maybe you're more the ruby vor sapphire type of person? Only way to know is to steal and return.
On second thought, I don't like this metaphor, because it removes the agency from any potential partner by defining them as an object you can own.
For myself (german, M35, mostly vegan) I have the hope that there is somewhere someone for me. Someone who loves me as much as I love them.
For this to work I not only need to search, but be findable as well. Parship and dating goes two-ways.