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Autistic roommate and scooter issues (7.62x54r.ru)

submitted 6 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I have an autistic roommate who is generally pretty good as a roommate. Lately there's been unnecessary friction over his scooter, which seems connected to his condition. He bought it after I suggested that he buy a motorcycle that's restricted in speed and engine displacement and so doesn't require a license or insurance. He went to the dealer and bought a scooter and when I asked him why he said that it was all they had even though he could have gone elsewhere or ordered one online.

Anyway, the thing I've been trying to get through to him is that he needs to park it around the back where it's not visible from the road or at a minimum, lock it up.

There are two other issues. I don't really like having a scooter parked in front of my house because they aren't really socially acceptable where I live. It's not a huge deal for me personally. The other is that he seems to cause road rage and I don't want rednecks driving by and seeing his scooter parked in front of the house.

He also owns a car that his parents pay for and I've tried to get him to use it more depending on where he's going because I've told him that he absolutely cannot be riding his scooter on country roads because the rednecks drive way too fast and they won't even see him when he's maxing out at 28 with that tiny engine.

I'm wondering if his refusal to park in the back is related to his condition. I'm mostly only concerned about it because I don't want to deal with the fallout if it gets stolen. All the other roommates who have had mopeds park them in the back.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I think that you're right. I don't want to stress him out but I see him do a lot of things without thinking that I'm sure aren't good for him. He kind of just "exists" in that he just goes about his day and punches the clock and comes home.

I don't want to deal with the fallout if his scooter were to get stolen because I don't think he'd take it well.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

What do you think you’d have to deal with?

I was in a similar situation with a roommate who would leave his bike in the yard instead of the garage. When it got stolen I just shrugged and said, “I told you to put it in the garage.” And that was the end of it on my part.

You offered advice, he didn’t take it, it’s not for you to worry about after that.