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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Hey,

I recently lost my furry friend... It was a tough period and I'm still sad, even if time is healing slowly.

It's the first time I had to deal with such a situation where I have to decide when to go to the vet for the final journey... It was so hard....

Today I can talk about it without getting too emotional. I've also written a blog post on my website to express what I was feeling about that.

People are telling me to adopt another one, but to be honest, I don't feel like I can do it now... Maybe it will come back, I don't know.

All I can say is that it was one of the hardest thing to endure. We love so much those small little animals... Maybe too much.

And you, how have you dealt with such situation? Did you end up getting another one at some point?

Edit: I spent this morning going through each of your messages individually. Thank you so much for sharing your stories and advice. I'm at a loss for words, except to express my heartfelt THANK YOU for your kindness and support. One phrase from your comments deeply resonated with me: "Grief is the price to pay for love." How profoundly true that is... I believe our Izumi lived a joyful life, and he brought us joy "every. single. day. of. his. little. life." Making the decision to end suffering is incredibly difficult, but I believe it's a part of being a responsible pet owner. In such moments, selflessness, not selfishness, is the choice to do.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

When I lost a loved cat in my youth, a friend wanted to help me out and brought a new young one.
I completely broke down and couldn't handle a new cat.

A half decade later a new cat showed up in my life by himself, and after a rough road with moving many times and staying for a year at my ex, he is since some years now happily at my place.

Take your time. What you valued emotionally has the right to be mourned by you

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yes definitely, I don't really want to have another one right now even if cats are parts of my life since the beginning... weird feeling, but I don't want to go against it, time will heal.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago