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[โ€“] [email protected] 27 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I think this sort of unfulfilled promise has been the biggest obstacle of my full scale adoption of a reddit alternatives.

As a non-typical Lemmy user (No interest in privacy, piracy, Linux, FOSS, Web Dev, SW Dev, Veganism, or discussing political theory with strangers online) finding active communities in topics i am interested in (basketball, football, hip hop and rap, martial arts, boxing, mma, PC building, relationships, kink, and the specific humor and nuance that comes with being a Black person on the internet) has been a struggle.

Many of those communities have two people or less posting in them or don't exist at all.

People are talking here but not about things i wanna discuss and that's disappointing so i have a hard time "sticking" if that makes sense

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I became the typical Lemmy user with interests in the topics you dislike because of the nature of the reddit migration, but I have to agree with the lack of skinfolk humor. It's kind of a bummer.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Actually, I'm kind of curious:

What do you mean "because of the nature of the reddit migration?"

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I mean that I became more interested in FOSS, privacy, and cybersecurity because I was (and remain) angry at reddit and all walled garden ass social media platforms.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That's what i thought you meant. Thanks!

in my case, the diaspora didn't change me so much as it displaced me.

Now I'm here and there. Much like Twitter and Masto where i do more content viewing on the legacy site where there's more content, but more posting on the FOSS alternative because of ideological imperative to see it grow even if its content doesn't serve me (yet?)

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I kinda do the same thing. I'll go through spurts of posting in music communities here (as well as commenting, for better or worse) and I use Beeper to check my discord and twitter group chats, but I mostly bounce between Lemmy and Bluesky, if only to avoid "the algorithm" and the non stop scrolling that comes with it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Yeah i hear you. Reddit was white on average but Lemmy/Kbin feels like baby powder on top of fresh snow

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Reddit has the worst most awful userbase (it was literally created to be a hangout for pedo-nazis) but has the benefit of normal people diluting the toxic shitheads, so as long as the moderators aren't actively suppressing a community they tend to be pretty normal on average.

Only problem is that it's nearly impossible to find a subreddit that isn't suppressed to shit by both the mods and astroturf bots.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

What do you mean by "actively surpressing a community?"

Do you have any articles on the origin of Reddit? It came out of Digg, right?

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

So white someone will make a trending post on a Linux memes community about "coonfigers" and no one has a problem with it.

Honestly looks like it sailed right over everyone's head too. I guess that's a good thing?

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

Bruh I saw that shit, but I didn't feel like walking into the comment section to fight that day.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That's true. There are a lot of fringe types of users here that aren't interesting (weed, curries, conspiracy stuff, etc). General average Joe discussions aren't much here tbh.

I do enjoy privacy and Foss discussions, but another issue here is that alot of posts are either reposts by users, or bots. You can check that same post on Reddit and you will see a lot of comments around it. Some positive and others negative but still higher in numbers.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I never bother with "general" opting for the boring special interests I have like comic books and tech stuff, so I haven't looked for one, but do we not have a "the lounge" or "off topic" like every forum type thing in history? If not, we should totally make one I guess. If there is one, post in it a bunch and help it grow!

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Are there people discussing comics or pro wrestling on here with any frequency?

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Define frequency lol. [email protected] is the one I post in and seems to be the biggest so far. But come post stuff and help out!