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Most common thing any ADHD kid has ever heard from teacher parent meetings:
"_____ is so smart, they just need to ApPlY tHeMsElVeS"
Yeah I was told the same thing. Eventually I was told I was Useless because I couldn't complete tasks. Not lazy, Useless. I do not know why a 7th grade teacher thought that was ok. I now will never send my kids to a catholic school
Do you also hate the word “potential?”
Mmhmm. As well as "focus" and "concentrate".
What about the phrase "just get a planner?"
This is a week old comment, but I was just triggered by the planner, and I needed to say so.
I've had a few teachers who were able to identify ways to get me to "apply" myself or to make the work more engaging for me. While it wasn't perfect, I can reflect and identify some teachers where they supported my undiagnosed ADHD well, and others who didn't
"He knows the material, he just doesn't do the work."
Oof, I nearly forgot that one...