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Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Thank you :)

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Oh I agree. I struggle with depression and anxiety myself. But, I try really hard to keep my shit together, even when I feel terrible. I don't feel like she's putting in the same effort.

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Not at first. This is fairly recent. She already gets snippy about me not helping that much around the house. I do help but I'm not taking on half of the work.

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Yeah, that's what it's looking like they want.

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

I'm not ok with that. It's just not really feasible to live off one income these days.

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Not currently. But as soon as we get married.

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

I think that's how my family feels as well.

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (9 children)

After kids are in school. They're expecting full support during the whole first years of kids.

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (4 children)

They do have ADHD and is medicated. I know it can be an impediment and try to support them. I'm not sure how much longer I can be OK with little to no progress.

Unsure of the future with my current fiance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (6 children)

Cry and make excuses.

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Unsure of the future with my current fiance. (discuss.tchncs.de)
 

So I'm not sure if I can or should continue my relationship with my fiance or try to fix things. We've been together for two years now. When we first started dating they said that they were working on finishing their masters degree but they have not done so. They also said they'd be going back to work after they finished their degree. They have just been running through their savings and staying at home. They do most of the chores but the house is often a bit of a mess. Now they're saying that they want to wait until after kids to go back to work. My family also thinks it is a bad idea to marry them.