kajko

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago

I want a switch that makes me able to not be perceived.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 6 months ago (5 children)

I joked with my mom about how everything started hurting after 25, and she was baffled because for her the aches also only started after 50.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Yeah a couple of months ago we were casually doing flips and rolls on fresh snow and rolling down snow piles while laughing.

Occasionally climb up trees for no reason, other times to retrieve geocaches (treasure hunt!)

Last summer kicking ball in the garden with no purpose (but with beer and BBQ)

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Things go viral sometimes and it snowballs. The more famous you are, the more famous you can become. She's also good enough at being an entertainer to keep riding the wave of increased fame, with added resources the bigger she gets.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Is he using a smartphone?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

I do feel like this at all times. :)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm not judging you right now, just curious. Does it also feel that (gay) men immediately sexualize other men? Do you do that? Did you feel it was done to you?

Was talking to my partner now (he's a man, I'm not). Wondered if hearing straight men objectifying women when you're yourself not into women sounds a lot more jarring and unreasonable, precisely because you're in a way "sober" about women.

I'm not saying men don't have a huge damaging influence growing up, that a lot can only break with a lot of effort, but with your brother's friends it sounds also like a bunch of horny teenagers posturing to each other. Not ideal behavior and not always harmless, but far from making men emotionless hole-seeking creatures.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I see them for what they are.

You are a man, do you see yourself that way too?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

The key is adjusting difficulty so that it's not too boring but not too frustrating. I am really bad at Elden Ring but I just made myself over leveled and it's quite fun. Occasionally I just get help for a boss if it's too frustrating.

I am too old to care about the pride of being good at it though.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

When someone asks if they can pet our dog, we always say it's up to her. Sure she cannot speak, but always has little body language and many times she's just not interested or looks uncomfortable or impatient to keep walking.