Nope. Incorrect.
Racism: the systemic oppression of a racial group to the social, economic, and political advantage of another
When a system oppresses you, no bootstraps to be had.
That's just another white supremacy myth meant to make it look like some people just don't try hard enough.
https://www.ibramxkendi.com/how-to-be-an-antiracist/
That will explain it. If you cared to do your own research instead of regurgitating the crap that's been spoonfed to you your whole life.
Still seems nice to not have to mow every weekend :) I think the clove just grows and doesn't take much effort, but killing the lawn seems overwhelming.
Hope you can get to the point where you can let it go :)