Besides what others have said basically asking "what is it that you're trying to protect (from)?" I would say the main questions in terms of usage are, are you on a degoogled Android phone and are you using Linux on your Desktop yet?
Yea sure VPNs are nice but I personally often feel like I don't want to have to hide behind someone else's IP-Address just to add a layer of obfuscation to the data-collectors. If your browser is clean and working for you there is no need for a VPN (unless you need it for the sake of coming from a different geolocation). If your Operating System isn't Open Source it can be assumed to be tracking you with or without a VPN.
There are definitely downsides (especially in terms of convenience) to using Android without Google on it. If those inconveniences are too much for you (as you are alluding to in your described hassles) then it's probably just a question of which desire is stronger. That for certain privacy or that for ease of use.
I think if you're talking wider demographics your model OSs are (obviously) Windows and macOS. People buy into that because CLI familiarity isn't required. Especially with Apple products everything revolves around simplicity.
I do dream of a day when Linux can (at least somewhat) rival that. I love Linux because I am (or consider myself) intricately familiar with it and I can (theoretically) change every aspect about it. But mutability and limitless possibilities are not what makes an OS lovable to the average user. I think the advent of immutable Linux distros is a step in the right direction for mass adoption. Stuff just needs to work. Googling for StackOverflow or AskUbuntu postings shouldn't ever be necessary when people just want to do whatever they were doing on Windows with limited technical knowledge.
However on another note, if you're talking a home studio migration, not sure what that entails, but it sounds rather technical. I don't want to be the guy to tell you that CLI familiarity is simply par for the course. Maybe your work shouldn't require terminal interaction. Maybe there is a certain gap between absolutely basic linux tutorials and the more advanced ones like you suggest. Yet what I do want to say is that if you want to do repairwork on your own car it's not exactly like that is supposed to be an accessible skill to acquire. Even if there are videos explaining step by step what you need to do, eventually you still need to get your own practice in. Stuff will break. We make mistakes and we learn from them. That is the point I'm trying to get at. Not all knowledge can be bestowed from without. Some of it just needs to grow organically from within.