This is a massive rant with no points related to the actual conversation at hand, sort of just 5 or 6 point thrown out without extrapolation.
I think I get the general gist of what you're pointing to, but I just don't see it. People said 'if you support Trump (who actively said racist, misogynistic, and deplorable things) then you support those people/ideologies' and that's not even an insult, it's a fact.
There's no flood of media im seeing saying 'all boys are bad and should feel bad'. I AM seeing a flood of "men aren't being held accountable for their actions, and that's influencing how young boys perceive the outcomes"
But I hear the sentiment you're voicing in other spaces, but no one has been able to point me anywhere. Please, help me understand what it is you're seeing that makes you feel that way.