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Barbie: who saw it? (lemmygrad.ml)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Today was the first day that both our kids are in day-care all day. Effectively the end of our parental leave. Me and my SO decided to treat ourselves to a movie and saw Barbie. We figured if the conservative sphere was getting pissy about it, it must be good.

Anyone else see it?

I wasn't expecting much. I have to say, I don't think I could have ever expected this movie to be what it was. It's campy, funny, colorful, and steps on your throat with it's message and hardly let's it off. I say that as positivity as someone can.

It's amusing to me that some people think the movie is anti-man. It did make me feel mournful for my daughters inevitable loss of innocence. A corporate, big budget toy advertisement of all things. I think that's the most surprising part. In some ways Barbie is the most unlikely and perfect vehicle for what the movie has to say.

I don't know. It's conflicting because, at the end of the day it's a huge corporate puff peace, but also... What else could deliver it's message to so many people?

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I watched it a while ago and had fun, but the barbies literally vote patriarchy away, so it's just your harmless liberal "feminism" piece.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I haven’t seen it yet but my friends and I are planning on a Barbenheimer double feature, I’m looking forward to it since I’ve heard a lot of good things.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You'll have fun, for sure. I'm interested in Oppenheimer but I have a strong feeling it's very revisionist and likely wreaks of character rehabilitation. I'm sure it'll be a gorgeous film.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t know much about Oppenheimer the guy but people seem to be split online about the movie; some say it’s sympathetic to Oppenheimer while others say it’s critical. All I know is that Einstein is in it and there’s nude scenes.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I think the first scene is a sex scene

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Yeah I saw it.

It's good. And worth watching. But there are so many people on social media saying this is going to be revolutionary for the feminist cause.

You're right about the corporate puff piece part. And the rehabilitation of Ruth Handler's image like she was anything other than a cynical capitalist whose creation played a huge part in calcifying the concept of gender roles in generations of children that came after her.

Mattel signed off on the movie. It exists with their permission and approval. They are not going to start or enable a cultural revolution against their own interests, and if they reinvent themselves so that it is in their own interests, they'll be doing it for profit, not for the liberation of women.

But fuck if anyone will listen to the skeptic's take. This thread is the first discussion I've come across where saying negative things about the movie (not even saying it's bad, just criticizing) doesn't result in a dogpiling of misogyny accusations.

The face of feminism in 2023 is a fictional character and it's copyright belongs to Mattel.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm going to see it this Friday at a local, independent cinema. I don't know how revolutionary it will be, but I have heard several men saying they had a reality check because of the movie. So it's doing something positive, I guess?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I did the same. I saw it at a local independent cinema. The audio quality could be better, but they have big comfy leather recliners so the tradeoff is worth it for this type of movie imo.

In order to be a success, this movie just had to be funny. It succeeds. They do try and shove a message in your face at the end. I found this to be awkward and it didn't really fit in with the theme of the rest of the movie, but it wasn't so egregious that it ruined it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Haven't seen it, don't plan to, don't care to tbh.

But having talked to some people about it, this is my takeaway: "Messaging" is simply a new tool of marketing, especially "subversive" messaging. You're not buying a car - you're committing a revolutionary act of activism against climate change and fossil capitalism. You're not buying an ethically farmed, grass-fed, local steak, you're fighting animal cruelty and big farming lobbies with your consumption. You're not simply dressing up skandidly in pink to watch a multi-hundred million dollar Hollywood production of Barbie produced and approved of by its parent company, giving new legitimacy to that old rubber toy franchise and boosting sales numbers. You're totally subverting gender roles and criticizing capitalism by doing so.

Imo you're not. You're just buying a new car, munching another steak and going to the movies again promoting one of the most famous IPs of all time. It's the same thing we've done our entire lives. Changing the messaging around the act without changing the act, doesn't change the act. You're just doing the thing.

There can't be anything really subversive coming out of the hegemonic culture industry. By the very nature of its production, via the commodification it undergoes, it has already become toothless and assimilated. Neoliberal anti-capitalism is just the newest sales-pitch. It's along the lines of "diverse" CIA targeting officer recruitment ads. Just like capitalism can't produce true anti-war movies, it can't produce anti-capitalist or real anti-gender-role movies. It would be self-defeating if it did.

That being said, if you enjoy it more power to you. Nobody needs a grand narrative of subversion and messaging to go see and enjoy a movie at the theater. If you get something deeper out of it, even better.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I agree, those who wanna watch it and enjoy it should do so without feeling bad about themselves or feeling especially accomplished for doing so

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I could not have said it better myself. We need to be much more critical especially of media that purports to have some kind of "radical" or "subversive" message because i guarantee you, if it's made it to the mainstream it most certainly does not. Products made by big corporations may carry superficially anti-corporate messages but in reality they just serve to reinforce consumerism by getting people to believe that by consuming they are doing something radical.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Imho, the Barbie movie is the biggest trojan horse in cinema history. It has nothing that resembles anything "barbie" done previously. For good or bad, it is a success and noone can argue but just think about how many mothers/fathers didn't even think of the age rating of the movie and took their kids to watch a highly politicised story. As it is with many things in life, there's a time and a place for everything, imo, and this sort of approach to ideologies is becoming more and more like religions, where they target the young. Aside from what I personally think about the movie, I don't want my kids to have to worry about politics or anything other than living their lives as kids, innocent and joyful and that we as parents will keep on working in the background to keep them safe and fed and loved, that's it. Being a parent is hard, I tell ya...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

This isn’t a liberal. This is literally the take that Ben Shapiro and a whole lot of brain dead stupid as shit right wing commentators had.

This is a conservative moron masquerading as them “caring about the kids”.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

if you have a kid you're doing an absolute disservice to them with that attitude. like if u have a girl you're gonna be like nah that wasn't sexism dont worry ur pretty little head? everything is political. especially parenting.

e from what I personally think about the movie, I don’t want my kids to have to worry about politics or anything other than living their lives as kids, innocent and joyful and that we as pare

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was referring to kids, not teenagers. The movie is rated PG13 but in fact kids aged 5 or 6 and over are watching it...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

And they should.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A Trojan horse with neon lights announcing the hidden soldiers and surrounded by anti-Greek protesters.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Did you watch the trailers? Was there political cues in them?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lol man, every women I know has a story about being sexualized by an adult man when they were a child. Every, single, one. None of these men were considering wether it was the time and the place to shatter their innocence. That seems like more of a real threat then the "ideologies" of the Barbie movie.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. I was referring to kids though, not teens.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'll back up the previous commenter. Every single woman i know was sexualised by adult men as children. Children, not teens. Like 6-7 onwards was the first I remember personally. Prepare them. Yes you want them to have that perfect childhood and be children, but they also should know that men can be creeps and it's not their fault and not acceptable, and what to do when it happens.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Agreed and we do teach our kids about this issues at home. We read books together, there's no question we won't answer. In my opinion we don't need Barbie to teach them that, that's all. It's like going to watch the Lego movie, we didn't even think of age rating, same happened here I believe...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm sorry you seem to be missing my greater point here: Our daughters will be sexualized by a man even while they are still children, not just teens, robbing them of their childhood innocence, which is far more damning then me or you taking them to see the Barbie move... Where most of the films message will fly right over there heads, but could create an opportunity to have a conversation about the fact above.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

We do have those conversations at home. I don't need Barbie to be the messenger, I'd prefer she was a toy my kids play with, like in basically every other Barbie cartoon ever made before this movie. That's my opinion.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

it was rated pg13 and you're complaining? what the hell?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Do you think that under 13s aren't going to watch the movie?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What do you think PG means in PG-13? Perfectly Good?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Parental Guidance - 13 and over.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

PG-13 – Parents Strongly Cautioned. Some material may be inappropriate for children under 13. Parents are urged to be cautious. Some material may be inappropriate for pre-teenagers.

It's not a restriction by age it's a warning about content, but it's left to the parents to decide if it's appropriate.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

uh yeah it's up to the parent to know if their kid is mature enough. There's nothing in that movie that could scar a kid like an R rated movie could, what more do you want? do you want them to literally start making parents bring birth certificates to movies to prove their kid isn't under 13???

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No, what I meant is that nobody went to see the Barbie movie expecting to find a movie heavily politicised, that's it. Have you ever watched any other Barbie content before this movie? I certainly have done so with my daughter. If I'm going to see a John Wick movie, I know what to expect and so would you. Did you expect a Barbie movie to be what it was? I never said the movie was wrong or the message was wrong, that was never the point of my comments and every one seems to miss that.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Did you expect a Barbie movie to be what it was?

Yeah pretty much. Knew it was about feminism weeks before it even came out lol

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Barbie is inherently political. The mere existence of Barbie in previous generations inspired similar movements to the “anti-woke” far right reaction that we’re experiencing today.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Hehehe, we're still talking about Mattel's Barbie doll, right? Because that toy's history is not as clear cut as you seem to think. =)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Still waiting for a quality torrent. Not paying shit to Hollywood.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

https://myflixerz.to/watch-movie/barbie-693.9766228 Its ok I guess, quality is in the eye of the beholder I suppose but here it is. Edit:make sure to X out the popups

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

this is where i watched it. i thought the music was a little hard to hear the lyrics but pretty good considering its a recording of the screen. the video quality was great.