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Having tried all three, its a stark difference in how much more social Lemmy is comparatively. Its not even close. Almost all posts I've encountered on lemmy have interaction; whereas, more often than not, posts on the other two platforms have no interaction. Wonder what the driving factor is behind this difference?

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

The blog style format (post + threaded comments) is a lot more inviting to a conversational style than microblogging. Some Masto instances have very open post character counts but some are much more limiting - as are Bluesky and Xitter. If you're not able to explain your point clearly it hampers the ability to have a decent conversation about it.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago

Tbh I'm a lot more antisocial here

[–] [email protected] 42 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Honestly, I think is the whole ”First Post” mindset.

When you post a reply on Mastodon, it is more intimate, the only people who see it are the original tooter and anyone who actively seeks more commentary. It is a dialogue between two people, or multiple dialogues between one person and many others.

Lemmy is more like a forum, where everyone can see all comments, right underneath the original post. It is more like an open-table discussion.

It is not that Lemmy is more social, it is just less personal.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

I find microblogging format isn't really great for having any sort of meaningful discussion. Mastodon is good for posting news or memes, but that's about it. Lemmy format allows having an actual dialogue, and that makes it a lot more engaging.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

It’s probably that Lemmy is communities but mastodon is individuals

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Mastodon is so boring for me. Some people boost me because I discuss my research or Linux but rarely any engagement

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

The format is certainly more conducive to discussion. On the flip side though since communities reside in spaces and are moderated by individuals here, compared to the more 'broadcast' nature of using tags on Mastodon, you end up with some really bad echo chambers on Lemmy. Just a quick look at a basic news community between instances will show a massive slant depending who runs it. With Mastodon people talk more globally and the obnoxious ones just get blocked en-masse rather than so much being at a mod's whim.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

On the flip side though since communities reside in spaces and are moderated by individuals here, compared to the more ‘broadcast’ nature of using tags on Mastodon, you end up with some really bad echo chambers on Lemmy

These are two sides of the same coin, one side you called community and the other side you called echo chamber. Whether a particular community/echo chamber is “bad” or “good” is a matter of your interpretation.

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[–] [email protected] 131 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

I've never heard of Nostr but Mastodon is a twitter clone and I don't find that style of website suits discussion well since you subscribe to accounts rather than communities.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago

You follow hashtags. It's what I do and it's been a good experience so far.

It's about the same as on Lemmy engagement-wise.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

It's an interesting dynamic!

I find myself talking more on lemmy as others say because it's easier/made for talking about topics. Mastodon and other fedi services center around following the account that made a thing rather than the thing(s) themselves. And that's fine, both have their place.

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I assume because people follow topics on lemmy, unlike microblogging where people have to follow each other to interact (one-to-many vs one-to-one). So it’s easier to interact with many people that you don’t necessarily had to be following prior, which increases the chances of interacting with more people.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

you can follow hashtags. I follow #opensource and a few other interests and I've found some interesting stuff you don't generally see in other places. but yes, the format is completely different and I find lemmy allows for better discussion than Mastodon.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah Mastodon seems way less about discussion and way more about surfacing cool shit you wouldn't otherwise see.

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