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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Overcoming depression is no small feat, though. Even just deciding to seek a therapist merits respect, imho.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Today I was able to sort out a few drawers full of shit in my room and part of a library.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

That sort of thing takes me a few years

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Good on him for taking a hike. The first photo trips me up. Was the hike to the middle of a highway? Is there a placard or historical marker there in the middle of the highway?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago

I'd guess that was at the trailhead or right outside the trailhead of the trail he went hiking on. A lot of the trailheads I've seen on the pacific coast are like literally 10ft from the highway

[–] [email protected] 52 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

It's a wonder what simply walking outside does for your mental health. Good on him.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

It's not for everyone (as noted by that other commenter), but when I was in a bad place mentally, I was listening to a podcast and one of the guys said that whenever he was in a really tough situation, he'd go for a 30 minute walk before making any decisions and then when he'd had time to consider everything, he'd often have some idea where to get started fixing things. So I started going on walks listening to that exact podcast. Helped a lot. It's a double whammy, too. Not only do you have time to yourself where you can think about things (in my case while listening to the podcast because I have ADHD and just my own thoughts all at once are a bit too much, but when I'm also listening to something, I get less of it), you also get the happy hormones from physical exercise and fresh air.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I'd be careful to say what it can do for your mental health. I tried to make it work for me, but it always made me feel worse because it gave my mind time to ruminate on bad memories and feelings. I would've stopped doing that to myself sooner had I not heard that exercise = good feelings without caveats.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

Oh, I'm definitely not saying it's a cure or anything for mental health. Just that it's amazing if it does work for you.

It definitely works for me. I go hiking regularly.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

Maybe going outside but with another human to distract you could help?

[–] [email protected] 43 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Pros:

  • good graphics
  • realtime physics simulation with ragdoll engine
  • no subscription service
  • almost no ads
  • never have to buy DLC

Cons:

  • it’s outside
[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

Pay2win garbage

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 weeks ago

No subscription? Literally everything in that game is behind some kind of paywall, even transportation.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

almost no ads

oh boy, surely you haven't been outside in a city lately?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I feel for you buddy, leave the big cities it isn't bad everywhere

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Nah, I'm good. I prefer the better access to healthcare and culture that the city affords.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I see what you're saying, I'm from a nation of 5 million in Europe so we get the benefit of great benefits, education and healthcare while our capital only having 500ish k people. In terms of cultures. Big cities will always have more fun stuff

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago