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[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (2 children)

The real question is how do you pull 3 girls at the same time?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

you gotta take the goodpersonpill and start personalitymaxxing

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

The use of "three of my girlfriends," instead of something like "my three girlfriends," makes me wonder if she's got more

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I had three girlfriends for a while in my late twenties in that I was the guy they hooked up with when their primaries were out and they were feeling lonely / jealous. Not a great gig, as I was getting laid way less than I would have liked.

Curiously, my flat-mate's boyfriend, who was getting plenty, was envious of my poly adventures, maybe imaging more of a harem lifestyle than I actually had.

PS: Only in my late forties did I ever become comfortable letting my parents get news about my love life, by which time it had stabilized.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

me but with boys :3

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Bottom shelf anime, top shelf meme

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Please elaborate. How do you acquire these women?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Step 1: be a girl

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's not unusual if you're poly

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Faaair, but that seems more than a little rare lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

i mean, i acknowledge I'm still young and all my relationships are long distance, but like, i have 5 gfs, and like, my parents are actually hella accepting

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Who out here getting three girlfriend 😭

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Poly lesbian

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Who the fuck has time for three girlfriends?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Late 20s it's kind of doable, at least for awhile. But usually they don't know each other, lol.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Just wait till they unionize

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Nobody, which is why poly is exclusively for people with a scheduling kink.

But yeah, I've never met a poly person who would bring three of their partners to a single event and introduce them all as their girlfriends. In fact, I don't think I've ever met a poly who calls their partners "girlfriend".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

I was in a poly relationship. I called my girlfriend "girlfriend" and she called me her "boyfriend," and she also called her other boyfriend "boyfriend" and he called her "girlfriend."

It was a great, genuinely healthy relationship, and Kyle was an excellent dude who always treated our girlfriend excellently

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

I've allowed my partner to refer to me as girlfriend to make discussion with others easier. I don't love it, it doesn't sound like a longterm adult relationship, but I recognize it's easier to say "my wife and my girlfriend".

and both of us go to family Christmas, though not everyone needs to know relationship status.

... you're absolutely right about the scheduling thing though.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Can I acquire a scheduling kink?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

It depends... when are you available?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Dude is a hentai main character

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

They gotta leave some for us 😫

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Well, the nice thing about poly is that.. they do! As you can still date the same people they're dating!