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I know the obvious of being polite and respectful. do I show up early like an airport? Do I just show the guard my ticket? Anything I should know or be aware of?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It was closed lol rescheduled for the 31st. I think I'm going to go dressed up as a judge.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Dress fairly nice. No shorts, no wacky t-shirts

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

Also works for the other kind of courting.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)

If it was just a traffic ticket you can hire a traffic lawyer for fairly cheap if you don't want to go to court or would like the comfort of someone there for you who does this often. In CA, I've seen this typically cost around $50 for handling a traffic ticket. They can get most tickets dismissed or at the very least the fine reduced. If a cop no shows it gets dismissed.

Best to get it renewed asap though as previous commenters suggested, then it becomes a non-issue, so a trip to the DMV might be a good idea. I'd head your DMV website since the address varies depending on the state you're in. Renewing a REAL ID may require you take a short refresher course and provide two documents that prove residency, one that proves identity (US Passport, previous license, SSA card, etc) they'll tell you what you need on there though.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Why could an expired license possibly require court? It's an administrative issue at best, should require a 50 dollar fine for the mistake and we all move on

The US legal system is a giant abusive mess

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Oh you are in for a treat. I spent time in the local jail when I was much younger, and was surprised that some of my fellow inmates were in there for some absurd things. The two that stick out are:

  1. Driving without a license - apparently if you do this more than once, good chance they will just take you jail and impound your car, and if you can't afford bail you wait until court, which is weeks or months.

  2. Unpaid child support - I actually have no idea the logic here. You have unpaid child support, so we will put you in jail, charge you 30$ per day to be paid upon release for "housing", and guarantee you have no way to earn money.

The bail and housing fees are not actually specific to those crimes, it applies to all crimes but really compounds things in some situations.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Agreed. Unfortunately this is what happens when you attach dollar amounts to key performance indicators for effectiveness with policing. Fines = revenue for government so they try where they can. It's why carpool lanes are so heavily policed here. The base fine rate is higher.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I've been to court a few times, once for a traffic incident where I hit a pole and totaled my car. Got an improper lane usage ticket. I just showed up in regular clothes, went to the front desk thing and asked where my courtroom was. They made us wait outside of it until it was time. Then I just plead guilty or whatever and had to do one of those driving classes. I wouldn't worry too much. Yours isn't that serious either.

Honestly kinda shit of the cop to make you go to begin with.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Honestly kinda shit of the cop to make you go to begin with.

I thought you really only had to get to court if you denied settling the matter with the cop there and then. So you are not forced to go to court but if you want to dispute the ticket you have to go to court.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

It depends, in some areas that part where you either accept by default or choose another option is part of court. In my area they clear out everyone who is taking the default judgment at the beginning and then go through the rest one at a time.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

How'd it go?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

A cop giving a ticket for a simple expired license is a dickhead. Don't say that in court.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Lol what the fuck? Why on earth would anyone get a license if there were no punishment for not having one? Also I assure you that they didn't get pulled over for having no license; they were breaking another driving law.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I said expired, not suspended. Not the same thing and you know it. Also, he must be doing something wrong or he wouldn't have been pulled over? Reasoning skills, you lack.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago

Go to the dmv asap to get the license, ideally before court. If you get it done, show your new license to the court and they will dismiss your case, (hopefully)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Plead "Nolo Contendere." You're guilty of the charge, the law and judge don't care that you forgot. They're not your parents, and it's your responsibility. You'll probably just get a fine.

https://legaldictionary.net/nolo-contendere/

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

Just say "No contest" though, spouting off latin makes you look like a dork.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 5 days ago

I'm a bit late, but I used to testify in DUI cases and have sat through many court sessions.

First, you didn't commit a crime, you made an oopsie. Don't stress out too much, a lot of people just don't show up, you're a light in the dark for just showing up.

Wear nice clothes, put together the best you can with what you have, don't go buy a suit for traffic court. Slacks and a collared shirt (no visible holes or worn spots) is typically enough, especially if you're living paycheck to paycheck. Save your money for fixing the situation, not looking nice. Looking nice does help and shows respect to the court (judge) but trying to fix things on your own without them intervening makes you look even better.

Explain that you made a mistake and accidentally let it lapse. Talk to the public defender if you can. They are overloaded with cases but will help, court proceedings and the language they can use is confusing.

Try to make amends now, renew your license, sign up for whatever you need to sign up for, if you can't afford to renew let the judge know that you're walking/biking/bussing to work until you can afford to renew/sign up/etc. Ask the court for mercy since you have a clean record to the best of your knowledge and are already taking steps to remedy the situation.

Be very nice, the judge is the law in their courtroom, the only person with more power is the court stenographer because they get to correct the judge.

Bring receipts or any proof that you have of what you're doing.

As many have said DO NOT DRIVE YOURSELF TO COURT.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 days ago

Court? For an experience license? Where do you live?

I was pulled over for speeding and my license was expired. I got a ticket for my license being expired )which wasn’t that expensive) and the cop told me I couldn’t drive home. I asked her if she’d drive me home because it was one of the worst days of my life (long story) and she told me she’d be happy to. She did not give me a speeding ticket. My mate drove me to renew my license, and I mailed in the 85-ish USD for the ticket. No court.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Tell the judge you're a sovereign citizen and he has no authority over you. If they try to touch you, just call "help! I'm being kidnapped!"

[–] [email protected] 43 points 5 days ago (1 children)

To be super clear: this is a joke answer, NEVER do this.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

But if you do anyway, please record it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

And Lols. And worthless Internet points.

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