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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Maybe next time leave the ladder behind instead of taking it with you.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

well, there are just more boomers, and less gen x/millenial people. It should follow that there will be less babies lmao.

Granted cost of child raising is still likely to be a more influential factor, it's not the only factor, and we were going to see this anyway so.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Lmfao thanks for ruining our whole society, boomers. Reap what you've sowed.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Way to focus, Wall Street Journal. We can always count on you for in-depth journalism

/s

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Oh they are deep into something, it is just is not as nice smelling as journalism

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (14 children)

Not the best thesis, but people should have kids and more of them. That’s not open for debate.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

We need to learn to take care of the ones who are already here before we start making more. That's not open for debate.

Personally, I think the solution of "not enough kids" mirrors that of a law proposed decades ago: if a citizen votes in favor of going to war, they're automatically drafted should war be declared.

Republicans/Conservatives the world over want abortion banned, right? Cool, you vote to ban it, you're automatically added to a list to adopt children who cannot be aborted. The individual gets no say in when the adoption happens, they have no say in gender/ethnicity/etc, the government shows up, hands them a baby, and that's now their child. Government can do weekly/regular checks to ensure the child is being raised well enough and that the parent is home enough to watch them. And no limit on how many kids end up in your lap, either.

Oh, that doesn't work with your work schedule/life schedule/etc? Too bad, you wanted to save the unborn babies, now save them. You can't afford 13 newborns all at once? Sure sounds like a you problem, since you didn't support any of the things to make the lives of children better, like abortion/contraception/sex ed, childcare subsidies, school lunch programs, etc.

Problem solved: Conservative Christians get to save all the babies, people can still keep making them without fear of it hindering their lives, and the population continues to grow so the capitalist machine can be fed.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (3 children)

No one needs to have kids ever, the world will be fine. That's not open for debate. Also, I deserve all the money, chocolate, and sex in the world, that's not open for debate. I like this game!

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Not the best thesis, but people should have kids and more of them. That’s not open for debate.

you know whats not open for debate? Freedom, and liberty.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

LOL 😂

If you want more kids make a world where raising kids is easier, safer, and more affordable. Just stating "That's not open for debate" is such an idiotic non-answer to the problem of people not wanting to have kids. There are reason people feel this way. Fix those reasons and people might feel differently. Not me, but other people would.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

| not me

ok so why raise issues about easier, safer, more afforable if they're not your reasons?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because I have loved ones that are living in this world and it matters to them, therefore it matters to me.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Have those people committed to not have kids until those issues are resolved? And have they set thresholds of easier, safer, more affordable to trigger their child rearing?

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Go ahead buddy, nobody stopping you.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Aww 8 billion just isn't enough for you huh?

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I vote for basic replacement. However, if people want to not have kids, that's fine too. There's way too many humans on Earth as it is and the only reason why 75% of the species doesn't starve to death is because we artificially increased the amount of food that we produce by doping the very Earth with poison.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

because we artificially increased the amount of food that we produce by doping the very Earth with poison.

to be clear, this only really changes the amount of food produced from a specific harvest, GMO foods are what you are closest to here, but those have very few downsides.

The primary issue here is centralized farming, if we were to decentralize it more, it would be vastly more economical.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

In addition to the financial implications, that's why we're stopping at 2. We get kids, the kids get a sibling, and it's a little below replacement level.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'll debate it. The world would be way better off with about 6 billion less people in the world.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I'm so done with this garbage random eugenics idea that the world should have exactly 1 billion people on it like some pseudoscience perfect number.

Its not a debate if you use feeling and lack any reasoning to get to your starting position.

There world is not some incapable small bubble that can only support some racist perfect population size of your desires.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

bro its literally just anti-natalism

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Having a specific population goal is not that.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't think Eugenics or racist is the correct ideas to use here. Less population just means smaller. Not a specific phenotype of human needs to be culled from existance. Just a smaller population.

All biological systems have population limits, and lots of evidence points that humans have passed those limits by quite a bit. Normally, there would be a population collapse due to food scarcity, but humans are capable of pushing those limits with agurcultural science. That doesn't mean that there are not huge determental effects on the world as a whole for there being an never ending exponential growth of people.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Who needs to be the 6 billion to die then?

Edit: Also go ahead and tell me where you get your population size to land use models so that it can be checked to not be still overshoot if you are so worried about how very few people can be supported by apparently this very limited planet.
And show me this exponential growth that hasn't apparently slowed at all with decreasing births

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Dude, you will die, everyone will die... Not because I will go and kill you because I decided so but because AGING EXISTS. Simply by having fewer kids the population will decrease fully naturally which was the point of the person you're arguing against. Also you're incredibly ignorant on what the fuck humans do to this planet which is the only one we have, so many ecosystems destroyed, so many species extint, so much of nature gone...

"@[email protected] was so preocupied with the question if we could that he didn't stop and ask himself if we should."

It's not about if it's possible to fit so many and more humans on there but about it being a bad idea on so many levels. But again though... How the hell did you manage to forget that aging exists? I can't wrap my head around this one. Bruh.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Waiting for a population to age out as a fix for anything isn't a fix. I'm not unaware I just don't sit around waiting for hopes and prayers of the slow death of billions of people as an answer.

We have now and current reality. Playing make believe doesn't help. And who doesn't have kids? Cause plenty of people will have them anyways despite the obvious issues the planet is facing so how do you stop them?

This entire line of thought of just a decreasing population to a size you think is right is wishful "merciful" eugenics.

Saying you wish we hadn't got here is one thing and not helpful but one can forgive that as we all get mournful of the past. Hoping for it as a future is wrong and out of our control without some awful steps. I won't back down on that.

Edit: and you ignored that you said we are still in exponential increase of population which we are not. Its just an easy excuse for the mentality.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Whoa, wanting less people via having fewer kids isn't eugenics, it's wishful thinking. I don't subscribe to the idea of forcing people to have fewer kids.

Edit: I can see how it sounds like I am advocating for eugenics in my earlier post. I will update it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Thanks.

Absolutes with a goal for a future population often appeals to a specific group that I can't stand who appeal to it "being necessary" but often leave themselves out. So I try to push back on it so they know it's not acceptable to take seriously. It's just not an answer.

I know it doesn't go over well in these communities but I don't care. If even it pops up in the back of their head when thinking about "what helps" I want counter words there to say hoping for death of nearly everyone is miserable even if it's an "easy" out for suffering.

Thanks for being able to recognize it as wishful past missed conservation.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Why do you say it's not open to debate?

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Told my mom if she wants grandkids she better stop voting for conservatives. Didn't work, and a deal's a deal.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

I mean, she's a boomer, if she said she had I still wouldn't trust her.

Boomers: "Reality can be anything I want."

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