Wow, you couldn't be more different than I am. Over the years, I've bought kits that had tutorials along with them, and I could never get hooked by them. I guess there's better tutorials for things now than "make a bunch of LEDs blink in order", so maybe the terrain is different.
There are so many kits you can find online, and I think a lot of them are more or less interchangeable. I suppose it depends on what extent you want to focus on digital vs analog circuits, but given that you mention robotics, I would assume digital. Grab one of the kits that has an arduino or raspberry pi and a bunch of other components. In the grand scheme of things, components are cheap, but no one is going to ship you the 5 exact resistors you need, so you need to have a fairly large assortment to choose from for different projects. Kits are going to come with different components like digital readouts, joysticks, etc, so just choose one that looks like it has the things you would like to learn to use.
It seems like kits are divided into "contains every part of a specific project" or "contains parts for 1,000,000 potential projects, and here's a booklet of tutorials for some". I prefer the second, but you could prefer the first depending on if you want to go right for robotics use cases.
Personally, my best learning has been through repairing home appliances and stuff like that. Even just "necropsies" on broken things to understand how they work.
Something that you'll notice with electronics these days is that sometimes the difference between a base model widget and the "premium" widget that is 1.5-2 times the price is the addition of a handful of cheap parts. They might be easy to put in and cheap, but they are going to remove as many costs as possible for the base model. For example, a $350 dollar espresso machine with $100 of extra parts added can easily compete with a machine that costs $1000 or more.