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Can my husband find out who I am voting for in the Presidential Election?"

Olivia Dreizen Howell, the founder of a website to help women get back on their feet after a breakup or divorce, tweeted last week, "We've been getting this question a lot," so she followed up with some facts. As the Washington Post confirmed with experts, the answer is simple: "No; it will be public record that you voted, but not how you filled out your ballot."

The GOP ticket is led by a sexual predator who a jury found "'raped' [journalist E. Jean Carroll] as many people commonly understand the word 'rape,'" the judge in the case wrote. His running mate, Sen. JD Vance of Ohio, has called for a national abortion ban, wrote the forward to a book that denounced contraception for making pregnancy "seem like an optional and not natural result of having sex," and repeatedly called women who haven't given birth "sociopathic" and "childless cat ladies."

Meanwhile, the Democratic ticket is led by a woman who chose "Freedom" by Beyoncé as her campaign song, and has dispensed with the mealy-mouthed language about abortion rights to declare she stands for "the freedom of a woman to make decisions about her own body." Her running mate, Gov. Tim Walz of Minnesota, her running mate, has decried "weird" MAGA Republicans of the "he-man woman haters’ club."

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

Depends on who wins.

[–] [email protected] 69 points 3 months ago (9 children)

Honestly, I love that my wife is a childless cat lady. It makes everything cheaper and easier. My life is better because I don't have kids, and I'm happy that we made that choice together as rational adults and that we were able to agree that this is the best path for us.

Anyone who chooses to have kids based on their values and circumstances is totally cool, whatever, as long as the kids aren't being abused or neglected, of course. That's your option and I respect it - someone has to have 'em.

But if you don't think people are capable of making the choice not to have kids and that it makes them sociopaths to not have kids, I'm pretty sure you're just an authoritarian who either hates women or has a breeding fetish. Maybe both.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Considering the sheer strain on the body pregnancy and birth have, I feel like being a mysoginist would automatically qualify one for a breeding fetish

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Her running mate, Gov. Tim Walz of Minnesota, her running mate,

But is he her running mate though?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago

I caught that too, and was going to make a comment saying I caught that too.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

I guess we'll never know!

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[–] [email protected] 226 points 3 months ago (5 children)

The big question touching a nerve this election: "Can my husband find out who I am voting for?"

That's one of those questions I feel like, if you find yourself asking it, you should probably get out of that marriage. (I know easier said than done)

[–] [email protected] 88 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Honestly. As a guy who is lefty (and bi, but mostly dates women). The dating scene has been way easier these past 5 or so years.

The political male-female divide means that right wing women, and left wing men, are far more “in demand” among heterosexual people. (queer people are majoritarily leftwing so it matters less there.)

[–] [email protected] 47 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Peter Thiel is really suffering though... and we can celebrate that.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago (6 children)

I hate that guy so fucking much. It really disenchanted me from NZ that they literally sold him citizenship.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 3 months ago (7 children)

How is this a big question? Isn’t this common knowledge, one of the first things you learn about voting?

[–] [email protected] 46 points 3 months ago

learn about voting

these are fox news households were talkin about.. they want less voting, not more

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[–] [email protected] 92 points 3 months ago (9 children)

The fact that people put up with partners that make them wonder this is not great.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

It's not ideal. Alas, people change, and sometimes you realize you're stuck in situations where bailing would cause undue hardship to your kids, so you try to make it work.

[–] [email protected] 54 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Many marriages are still fundamentally financial arrangements. Living together is cheaper, especially with kids. And when you own half of each other's stuff (particularly when that stuff is real estate or retirement or cars) decoupling isn't simple.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

How about my wife?

[–] [email protected] 27 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Nobody can know who you voted for in the booth unless you tell them. Just that you voted. Ballots are unsigned and you place it in the box (supervised, but folded and unexamined) yourself.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 3 months ago

Imagine how it has come down to this.

I salute the women, minorities, and all folks who have decency and do the right thing during this and all other elections. Let's all please be sure to vote.

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