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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago

I do too, but I’m also autistic.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 months ago

It honestly depends on the people and the situation.

Say I know my mom likes A and isn't crazy about B. I'm hanging around with both of them and both tell me to say "hi" to mom. I might not say B sent he a greeting because she doesn't like them, OR I might pass it along so she'll start to like them.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago

I will pass it along, but I'm autistic and I'm trying to err on the side of caution.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 months ago

I usually run with "I saw [insert name] not to long ago and they said hi"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] 47 points 3 months ago

I like to pass it along. It’s nice to let people know that others are thinking of them.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago

I would if my ADHD let me remember 😭

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago

Sure I both request it and do it for others. My partner and I have many mutual friends that we'll see independently so a not-uncommon interaction goes like "I'm getting lunch with the Blahblahs today." "Oh how fun, I have to work through lunch today. Enjoy, and please tell the Blahblahs hi and that we're looking forward to seeing the concert with them on Friday." We're all very busy but most people like to hear that a friend is randomly thinking well of them.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 3 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

If I remember I say it, but I don’t make an effort to remember. If the person wanted to say hi that badly, they can call the recipient themselves.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Yup. I give it like 30% chance of me remembering.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

...d so hard, and got so faaaaaarrrrr

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

But in the end it doesn't even matter

[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago

I do it when I’m asked, and sometimes even ask people to say hi/send a hug if I’m with someone and they’re talking to a mutual friend or family member on the phone.

Sometimes you just want to tell them “hey, you matter to me :)” even if we’re both busy or there is no need to catch up on what’s been going on in our lives (and a quick hi is enough).

[–] [email protected] 70 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, "Bob says hi, he was asking after you" is something I have said myself.

Say hi to your mom and them, we are having a potluck on sunday.

Gossip networking is a real communication protocol.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 months ago

But the acks take ages

[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago

i don't think i've ever remembered to pass on a "hi" to anyone

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I did until mobile phones became the norm, now I ask if they need her number to call. It made sense before phones were everywhere and you didn't make it to see everyone, but send a text yourself. My name isn't SMS.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Ugh, the idea of a family member giving out my number to acquaintances is hell. Stick to the hi's.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Most people already have the number, the point I make in asking is to show them that I don't need to be their messenger. You can call my mother/father/grandmother yourself. If they're asking about my wife/kids, I'll just say "Sure" and then forget because I'm apparently a goldfish. Most people who say "Tell them hi" are my parent's and grandparent's friends anyway. I don't give out a true friend's number, I agree that is not good.