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Kobold just released a bunch of tools for quant making you may want to check out.
I have not made my own quants. I usually just find whatever imatrix gguf bartowlski or the other top makers on HF release.
I too am in the process of upgrading my homelab and opening up my model engine as a semi public service. The biggest performance gains ive found are using CUDA and loading everything in vram. So far just been working with my old nvidia 1070ti 8gb card.
Havent tried vllm engine just kobold. I hear good things about vllm it will be something to look into sometime. I'm happy and comfortable with my model engine system as it got everything setup just the way I want is but I'm always open to performance optimization.
If you havent already try running vllm with its CPU nicencess set to highest priority. If vllm can use flash attention try that too.
I'm just enough of a computer nerd to get the gist of technical things and set everything up software/networking side. Bought a domain name, set up a web server and hardened it. Kobolds webui didnt come with https SSL/TLS cert handling so I needed to get a reverse proxy working to get the connection properly encrypted.
I am really passionate about this even though so much of the technical nitty gritty under the hood behind models goes over my head. I was inspired enough to buy a p100 Tesla 16gb and try shoving it into an old gaming desktop which is my current homelab project. I dont have a lot of money so this was months of saving for the used server class GPU and the PSU to run it + the 1070ti 8gb I have later.
The PC/server building hardware side scares me but I'm working on it. I'm not used to swapping parts out at all. when I tried to build my own PC a decade ago it didnt last long before something blew so there's a bit of residual trauma there. I'm worried about things not fit right in the case, or destroying something or the the card not working and it all.
Those are unhealthy worries when I'm trying to apply myself to this cutting edge stuff. I'm really trying to work past that anxiety and just try my best to install the stupid GPU. I figure if I fail I fail thats life it will be a learning experience either way.
I want to document the upgrade process journey on my new self hosted site. I also want to open my kobold service to public use by fellow hobbyist. I'm not quite confident in sharing my domain on the public web though just yet I'm still cooking.