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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Important clarification/FAQI am not calling to coddle or excuse the behavior of bigoted men in any way!

I am calling to be kind and understanding to young men (often ages 10-20) who are very manipulable and succeptible to the massive anti feminist propaganda machine. Hope this clarifies that very important distinction. :)

Very good comments that express key points:

Edit: This post has now been removed and restored twice. I want to encourage you all:

Be decent to one another

I think this post is a valuable thing given the current state of the Fediverse, please don't fuck it up for us by being toxic in the comments.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I would love to purge this meme, and all of it's derivates out of my feed.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

shitty people are just shitty, gender has nothing to do with it. Women and men are both capable of being abusers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Man...my BIL with his baby-mama/ex-fiance. I used to work with her (that's where they met, we all worked together at the time).

She's so nice and bubbly on the surface but holy shit there's a demon under that veneer and I've met it. That manipulative demon is how she became baby-mama after she became ex-fiance. But he puts up with it so he can keep seeing his kid and hopefully shield him from it ~half the time.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Ah yes what a fun meme, so much haha's were had.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

There is zero quality control here. I would rather see spam ads leading to shady websites than political grandstanding and ragebait at this point. At least this post isn't being intentionally divisive.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

If I were stuck in the forest with a bear and another person, I'd try to gauge if I can run faster than the other person. If not, I'll try to see if I can hit their knee caps with something. But seriously, the problem with that hypothetical situation is there's nothing actionable, you're either for or against, no chance of improvement. On the other hand, you shouldn't take things personally. We all just probably wish there are things we can do to improve.

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