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[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

I teach my kid it's important to lose bc you learn what to work on

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I never did understand why you are not supposed to change a running system.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

In IT it makes sense, but for everything else it doesn't

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

It's not that you can't, just that you shouldn't unless you really, really think about what you're going to change and do your due diligence. Otherwise, whatever the system is doing and whoever depends on it could get screwed over when someone makes a fucky-wucky because they didn't do their homework.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

The first step in exceeding any limit is to realize there is one.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago

The first step to solving a problem is recognizing that you have a problem.

But that's only the first step. If you aren't identifying that problem in specific terms (not vague generalities) and also proposing a solution (again not vague, and preferably SMART) then you are just complaining.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

If you can't criticize, you can't optimize!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 months ago (1 children)

People will bully and right out assault you for it but yes, thats pretty much my life motto.

Improving things starts with seeing and speaking no matter how many folks really dont want to hear it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

thats pretty much my life motto.

❤️

Mine is similar: to make the world a better place, you have to be better than the world. It gives me motivation and guidance when in crappy situations where I feel like fighting back, but doing so would only continue the cycle of anger.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

However, being dissatisfied and talking about how bad things are isn’t sufficient to make anything better.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

Your prettier if you would smile

/s

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago

Maybe sometimes it goes by accident =]

[–] [email protected] 25 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Absolutely, though I do wish more of the public and local governments would follow this type of mentality. Seems like most local towns and cities have lost this.

Seems like everything's more along the lines of "if it's not completely broken, then don't bother fixing or even improving it."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

I hate the phrase "if it ain't broke don't fix it". There are so many things that work like shit that could easily be better without ruining anything.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I still had this on my clip board from earlier, when I mentioned it in another thread. One of my favorite parts of one of my favorite songs. The Dead Kennedy's Stars and Stripes of Corruption. If you have never heard it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=983DwAOCXRI

But what can just one of us do
Against all that money and power trying to crush us into roaches?
We won't destroy society in a day
Until we change ourselves first from the inside out

We can start by not lying so much and treating other people like dirt
It's so easy not to base our lives on how much we can scam
And you know it feels good to lift that monkey off our back

If you don't know the song, its chalk full of cynicism and angst. But it ends with a good message. The fast beat and quick rythmic delivery of the lyrics with the beautiful surf guitar...

If we don't try
If we just lie
If we can't find a way
To do better than this
Who will?

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