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and, don't you notice something rubbing against it when you move?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I wear them pretty often in nightlife. I had the worst wedgie from one last night. Usually you don't notice them but mine has thick straps (it's fetishwear, I'm a performer) so yeah...

I also wear a g-string underneath for safety

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Also do you find yourself singing the thong song

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

And is it just an urge or does it become involuntary?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 months ago (1 children)

no way, full backs feel like you're wearing a diaper and you still get wedgies anyways, so why not have a tinier more environmentally friendly wedgy and no panty lines?

if you're actually having the specific problem mentioned in the title, just size up. try plain ones instead of weird fancy ones.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (4 children)

The slogan for the β€œfull-back” knickers I wear is β€œThey won’t go up your bum.” And they don’t! (Insanely comfy, jaunty colours, sturdy. Expensive but worth it.)

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

I notice it as much as I notice any other article of clothing against any other part of my body. It doesn't really register.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 8 months ago (5 children)

I plug for a couple days at a time every once in a while, honestly you stop noticing the outside contact after a couple hours. Then you forget it's there for the most part until you move and it grinds against your prostate and you're like "oh right this is nice" and you start doing kegels and leaking in your cage

[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 30 points 8 months ago (5 children)

That's the first couple steps on a long and possibly terrifying road. Sometimes not knowing is more comfortable. You've been warned.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Eh, it's not "terrifying" it's just a kink thing and it tends to get a lot of unwarranted negativity (imo because of insecure people). It's definitely not for everyone but, as with nearly all things sexual, it's never a bad idea to investigate things just to see if you're into it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

I'm sure some people find it disturbing or terrifying. Certainly not all. As for whether people are into it or not, it's their life and I'm not going to tell them what to do.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago

i only notice them if i accidentally wedgie myself with them shrug-outta-hecks

oh and when i check myself out from a mirror, obviously hyperflush

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago

not with a butt plug

[–] [email protected] 78 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Why not spend a few bucks on a thong and find out?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago (3 children)

because I don't want to waste money

[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 months ago (5 children)

They're worth it if you get swamp ass. You don't really notice it after like a week of wearing them.

But, only get cotton or modal. The synthetic fabrics just hold moisture against your skin.

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 8 months ago (5 children)

it's only a waste if you don't like it...

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Isn't that the whole point? But no to the latter question. Your shoes rub your toes but you probably forget about it after a while. Ever wear sandals? There's comfy pairs and uncomfy pairs.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I love when my sandal's thong rubs my f'anus as I walk, it's a great feeling.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

What horrible day to have eyes.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 8 months ago

Guy here, I've worn a few in my time and it's a lot like wearing a new ring on your finger, at first you notice it constantly, you feel it between your fingers and you notice when it moves, but eventually you forget it's even there. Exact same experience with thongs. After the initial sensory experience wears off its as present in your mind as the underwear you're currently wearing. It doesn't move much between the cheeks, and I can't say I've ever explicitly felt it shading my asshole.

Personally I'm not a fan of them because they don't provide the two things I wear underwear for, padding between my thighs so they don't chafe, and decency if I manage to cut it rip my pants while working. If I don't need to worry about those I'll just go commando.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I think it depends on the thickness of the cheeks and thong/string. I have a thicker than average booty for a guy, and I usually just feel thongs rest between my cheeks. If I start doing some crazy stretches or yoga I'm sure it'd get a little closer to the anus as things spread out.

Strings definitely get more up close and personal, but I feel it more on the top of my ass where it meets my back and on my gooch than my anus directly. It definitely goes a little deeper between the cheeks though, but I sure don't feel it rubbing against my anus. The right thong/string should feel like almost wearing nothing.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm not sure how this is relevant to the question.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

I don't think this is ever irrelevant (regardless the question)

[–] [email protected] -5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

You realize most people ONLY wipe when they poop, ...right?

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