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I don't know about you, but I really struggle with emails. These sentences were really helpful!

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Always happy to help!

No I'm not <.<

Could you do (time)?

I will never be able to pick a time :-\

It'd be easier to discuss in person

NOOOOPE

(Being assertive)

Not a chance :'D
This stuff is all bad for me πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Let me guess... ADHD and social anxiety?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Oh, very social anxiety πŸ™€Probably some 'the spectrum' funs too.

... I can barely leave my bedroom <.< hides under pillow

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Could you elaborate on how ADHD affects writing e-mails, if you do not mind? I expected writing e-mails would be more comfortable for someone with ADHD because they can take their time with the e-mail. But then again, the time is limited and maybe this freedom to write in your own time means that you write a single e-mail way too long, rewriting it, … I do not know much about it. I would welcome some insights on the topic.

Nevertheless, I like some of these suggestions very much. I might try and see if I can improve some phrases in my e-mails with these as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

One of the major reasons this applies to ADHD for me is the fact that I can fall behind on projects and emails and then feel the need to over-apologize and over-extend myself to fix the problem. Several of these tips address it. It's more about boundaries than emails per se, if that makes sense.... I mean, let me know if you have any questions :)