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You would think it would make me feel better to know that every person has intrusive thoughts. But it doesn't at all, quite the opposite.

Yall are as crazy as I am, we are doomed.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

I hope you step into a tub of Legos.

I hope you stub your little toe twice today.

May you only roll Natural Ones for your initiative.

May every cat you try to pet run away in fear.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

OMG your so literally cray-cray and quirky! Here's your participation trophy πŸ–•

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

What is going on in the photo? I don't understand

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Its a roll of solder which is melted to stick certain metals together and probably most well known for being used to stick electronic parts together. If you stab the soldering iron through it like this the roll would melt into itself and you would have to cut the strands off of the glob and use the cut pieces or just waste it and get a new one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

That truly sounds horrible. I totally get how this could be an intrusive thought.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

He stuck the soldering iron right in the roll of solder. This pretty much ruins it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Oh.... Oh jeez...

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Somehow, and I honestly don't know how, I have passed by countless fire alarms in my life and resisted the urge to pull every one I see. It's been 46 years. Here's hoping my record will continue to be unbroken.

But my goodness, I've spent a long time resisting the History Eraser Button. Those alarms are even jolly and candylike!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Please don't erase history! We need it πŸ˜­πŸ™

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I hope they weren't in California, that stuff causes cancer in California.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

It causes cancer anywhere.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

Melting crayons on oldschool incandescent lightbulbs was EXTREMELY satisfying as a kid

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

I used to regularly mangle candles with paper clips I would heat up in the flame and then use to skewer them. There's something super cathartic about just melting the fuck out of things.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Why isn't this post marked as NSFW

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago

as a kid, I was the responsible for having the classroom's key in breaks for a while.

and deep down I always had an irresistable urge to throw that key out the window, to the road outside. never did... but... it was soooo tempting. no idea, why, though πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I am not tempted by my intrusive thoughts, personally. Never understood the "intrusive thoughts won" meme. :P

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

You’ve never been near a ledge and thought, "what if I jumped?"

Never thought about dipping a finger in the blender or light socket?

Never thought of or touched something that you knew was way too hot?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

And it's always calling…

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Yes. All the time, and worse options besides. But there's no temptation to do those things. It`s more like I'm being reminded that those are options, that nothing besides my own will -- and the fact that I am in control of my body -- prevents me from doing them. It's scary. I hate it.

The part I don't get is the idea that other people claim to have voices urging them to do these things.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Do you have an inner monologue? Some people don’t and that’s okay but a lot of people do have a "voice" for their conscious thoughts.

But the other thing you described is intrusive thoughts. We think, "This is a thing I could do" and we mostly don’t do them bc we think about the consequences and our inhibitions kick in.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Yes, I have inner monologue. And yes I know what I am describing is intrusive thoughts.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I think if you're hearing actual voices urging you to do things that's a condition that should be addressed, that's not normal.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

I am not hearing voices urging me to do things, don't worry :P

[–] [email protected] -3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

The people making these jokes don't understand actual intrusive thoughts.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Intrusive thoughts are unwanted, involuntary thoughts, images, or ideas that can be distressing or upsetting. They can also be called interfering thoughts. These thoughts can occur spontaneously or be triggered by internal or external stimuli. They can be strange, aggressive, or sexual.

The act shown in the picture is certainly an intrusive thought.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

You also don't act on intrusive thoughts. This meme demonstrates an impulsive thought, not an intrusive one.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

I doubt anyone wants to waste a whole roll of solder. It's an unwanted action that they had a thought about. That's the intrusive thought, they then just acted on it.

An intrusive thought is the thought, acting on it or not is separate.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

The act in the picture isn't a thought at all. It's the result of someone deciding to do something destructive to see the result. I can't imagine the thought "what if I stuck my soldering iron in the side of my solder spool" was that unwanted, distressing or upsetting, either. After all, OP decided to do it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Doing it or not doing it doesn't change the type of thought it is, based on the definition. I reality we will never know, this could have been and most likely was planned. But assuming they didn't want to waste money and destroy a roll of solder, the thought could have been intrusive then acted on. The possibility is there.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

In my understanding, intrusive thoughts is something like this: you`re walking along the street and pass a woman pushing a pram, and a thought pops up reminding you that you could kick it into the traffic if you wanted, and here's all the consequences. And because you're not a psycho you reel at the idea, wanting to smack your head for even imagining it. But there is no temptation, no urging. The thought cannot "win" because it is not trying to get you to do it, it's just an imagined possible scenario.

This is something different from having an impulse, which is something you could act upon as you describe. Or, I suppose, it is indeed to just decide to do something from your intrusive thoughts, but that seems unlikely because a key part of the definition of "intrusive thought" is that the thought must be unwelcome and/or distressing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Yes but in your description of an intrusive thought you could still act on it, you just don't. But I'm sure there are people who at some point have.

I think your last sentence is close to where I sit. In my mind there is plenty of room for overlap between the two. You can have an intrusive thought with out without the impulse to do it. Yes it is distressing, but part of the intrusive thought is that sense of morbid wonder that I have to believe some people have acted on.

Also I'm no psychological expert or anything, I could be way off, it's just my take.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I have to assume so. Mine are very much not welcome or tempting in the slightest.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Same. Which is why it's intrusive. But I guess it's cute for people to make light of others distressing neurological symptoms πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yeah we`re both getting downvoted for this, it seems.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Because people literally don't understand impulsive vs intrusive thoughts. I'm sticking to my guns on this one. The hive mind is wrong.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

In my mind the two don't have to be entirely separate even, there can be some overlap.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 months ago

Nothing wrong with striking while the iron is hot

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