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Boys and men from generation Z are more likely than older baby boomers to believe that feminism has done more harm than good, according to research that shows a “real risk of fractious division among this coming generation”.

On feminism, 16% of gen Z males felt it had done more harm than good. Among over-60s the figure was 13%.

The figures emerged from Ipsos polling for King’s College London’s Policy Institute and the Global Institute for Women’s Leadership. The research also found that 37% of men aged 16 to 29 consider “toxic masculinity” an unhelpful phrase, roughly double the number of young women who don’t like it.

“This is a new and unusual generational pattern,” said Prof Bobby Duffy, director of the Policy Institute. “Normally, it tends to be the case that younger generations are consistently more comfortable with emerging social norms, as they grew up with these as a natural part of their lives.”

Link to study: https://www.kcl.ac.uk/news/masculinity-and-womens-equality-study-finds-emerging-gender-divide-in-young-peoples-attitudes

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[–] [email protected] 92 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd like to warn all the Americans against generalizing based upon their personal experiences or beliefs here. This is a UK study that sampled a UK population. These results can't necessarily be generalized to any other country, this is focused on the UK culture.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There was a recent story on NPR that addressed this. I can’t find it now but basically it said that all these studies in isolation have issues but now there appears to be a trend that transcends national boundaries and cultures.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago

I don't know about the NPR one, but Business Insider and the Financial Times had articles recently pulling together a bunch of surveys finding similar trends in the US and around the world respectively

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Although I understand the importance of feminism, I never had the impression that feminists are good at PR. Somehow, most articles written by feministsI've read love to stereotype and bash men.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

... just curious, but are you perusing a lot of feminist literature?

I know I'm not.

But what I do see are the articles that the right wing has decided are rage inducing and fair game and that they plaster everywhere to try to influence people.

So ... maybe worth some thought.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

Somehow, most articles written by feministsI've read love to stereotype and bash men.

Does anyone have a link to any of these? I keep hearing recently that somehow this has been a thing for ages, but last I checked "wanting gender equality" was the driving idea of feminism, and that a large portion of women and men agreed with this.

I'm in my early 40's and I definitely haven't seen some deluge of articles by women, who while proclaiming feminism, "stereotype and bash men."

EDIT: Seven downvotes, zero links. Pretty par for the course, guys. I'm not surprised, just disappointed.

EDIT 2: To any men, or boys, reading this who have been assaulted, there are supports for you. Feminism is as much about getting you the support you need that you don't have just as much as it is about getting women the support they need. I can't cover every country here, but if you're from Canada like me here is a government link to services for men and boys in intimate partner violence situations, and for 'general abuse' there is this link. There are people out there who care, please reach out to them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Go take a look at the UN's Twitter account on National Men's day. Or I remember articles about how 1 in 4 homeless are women and it's a tragedy for women. Honestly if you have seen articles like these before you're either not reading many of them or you aren't noticing what they are saying.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Go take a look at the UN’s Twitter account on National Men’s day. Or I remember articles about how 1 in 4 homeless are women and it’s a tragedy for women. Honestly if you have seen articles like these before you’re either not reading many of them or you aren’t noticing what they are saying.

So an article, and some twitter comments. That's not exactly "...most articles written by feministsI’ve read love to stereotype and bash men."

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Feminism is something with many internal factions. But yeah, the loudest ones aren't usually interested in genuine discourse. Some of those factions can act every bit as unhinged as 'persecuted' Christians about total non-issues, like Oscars nominations despite womankind as a whole having some very real issues to worry about.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)

People who say reasonable things most people can agree with rarely get their own platform.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Also, lots of people who say reasonable things have lies spread about them by misogynists and get made to look unreasonable

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

That too, that too. There are a lot of times something sounds absolutely nuts without context (and reasonable with it) and that is frequently used against certain folks as well.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

To be fair—they’re asking people to judge the effect of a movement, but only one of the groups remembers what things were like before the movement. It could just be that more gen Zers honestly don’t know the answer.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

So it seems it’s largely ethnic minorities in this age bracket that support this view?

What’s the bet that correlates strongly with religiousness.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Well, in the old days US women couldn't even vote. Feminism was thus more important than it is today. It's not really surprising to me that opponents increase by 3% points as women win more equality.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd wager that people who think that couldn't give you a coherent definition of what feminism actually is.

God fucking forbid women receive equal treatment or autonomy over their bodies!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Is there a coherent definition of feminism that feminists agree on?

(I think that people's opinion about feminism is commonly their opinion about self-identified feminists. It's fair to say "I believe feminism is harmful because the opinions I have heard self-identified feminists express have often seemed ridiculous, offensive, or counterproductive" without needing a definition of feminism that goes beyond self-identification.)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The definition I found that popped up on google pretty well sums up what I have always heard women say.

The advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes

It's really that simple. It's not a women over men movement. It's a movement to receive the same respect, rights, and inclusion that men have enjoyed basically forever. They want the right to make decisions about their body. They'd like to maybe not be victims of sexual assault and rape and staggering percentages (about 1 in 6 American women will be raped in their lifetime). They'd like to have a better chance at corporate leadership (10% of fortune 500 CEOs are women). They'd like to have more of a footprint in government (roughly 28% of the US congress is female and this is a record high).

They just want equity and respect and they deserve it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

There's an essay that I agree with about that sort of definition.

Here's a relevant excerpt:

I feel like every single term in social justice terminology has a totally unobjectionable and obviously important meaning – and then is actually used a completely different way.

The closest analogy I can think of is those religious people who say “God is just another word for the order and beauty in the Universe” – and then later pray to God to smite their enemies. And if you criticize them for doing the latter, they say “But God just means there is order and beauty in the universe, surely you’re not objecting to that?”

The result is that people can accuse people of “privilege” or “mansplaining” no matter what they do, and then when people criticize the concept of “privilege” they retreat back to “but ‘privilege’ just means you’re interrupting women in a women-only safe space. Surely no one can object to criticizing people who do that?”

Let's say that, for example, I affirmed my belief that people should be hired based on their ability rather than on their sex, but then I said that there are more men than women in software development mainly due to biological differences. That doesn't go against your definition, but do you think most feminists would react well to it? They didn't when James Damore said it, or when the president of Harvard said something similar...

(This is despite the fact that it's commonly accepted that biological differences between the sexes are the main reason why there are more men than women who are violent criminals.)

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

How did they define femanism cos by trational dedinition of equal i heighly doubt it

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Well, that's a new one. Not that surprising, though.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Is this just a cyclical thing that will swing back and forth like a pendulum? Feminism surges for a few years, following a big sort of zeitgeist-defining event (#metoo being the recent one), but then it sort of just gets taken for granted, attention lags, and a quasi counter-feminist movement emerges that pushes back against that. Have we had this happen before in the past few decades? I feel like recently at least I've seen a lot more men online bemoan the fact that nobody is paying attention to their inner-world. It's not even men bringing up or attacking feminism as a problem, I feel like more of the arguments are careful not to go there, more that society in general just doesn't care that much about men's emotional world. I would assume that along with that, you'd have some men pushing back against feminism or as seeing it as having over-extended itself.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I feel like more of the arguments are careful not to go there, more that society in general just doesn’t care that much about men’s emotional world.

As a man I feel like the main people to blame for this are men both now and historically. So many of us were raised with this macho bullshit hold-it-all-in thing and our parents' generation were even worse about it and theirs even worse still.

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