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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Lost over 700 followers yesterday. Everyone is sick of her Disney and bikini content lol

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Do you think those are 700 real people hitting unfollow or did a bot buy expire?

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

Or sick of this? Her head is almost as big as her torso. What kind of strange camera angle or filter do influencers use? It’s deceptive and 100% about looking thin. I hope she is gone from every internet feed real soon. She’s lost weight for sure, good for her as it is obviously very important to her but this photo is harmful.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

She’s really very sick and needs an intervention. The filtering is outrageous and the reverse-aging makes her look ridiculous. Doesn’t she ever wonder why she doesn’t have any friends who have kids the same age as her older ones? I made some of my best friendships when my kids were little and we’d all hang out together or just clicking with someone while waiting for the kids after school. Her constant posting shows everyone how the life she’s chosen to live is so empty and shallow. No one should be jealous or look at her as being aspirational. She’s a cautionary tale.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago

Someone else got called out for this on insta reality. Bobble heads lol. I love that she's not getting jobs now that she's lost the weight. No one wants another skinny influencer.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Where can we see these metrics?? 🎉🎉

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

I see them on hype auditor

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I feel so badly for her children.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago

Claims to be a Friends fan but spells Monica and Ross's last name incorrectly - it's Geller! I get it tho, she's super sleepy baby, after her big long vacay around Disney doing nothing

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Parenting for 1 week out of the year is soooooo hard. 🙄 Edit to add bird went on about practices for cheer and the whole family commitment and business. I can recall a number of times she exploited J and we saw her coming home after cheer practice where bird spent the night sitting on the couch. How gross that bird, who does absolutely nothing all day had another mom/dad doing the driving. I’m sure it was a carpool and everyone took turns but when you think of how demanding a real mom’s day is there has to be resentment seeing Sarah do nothing all day. I wish we could get an honest review from a mom in the cheer group.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

We also know Papa P picks up the slack and drives J places after his birthday post

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago

Just had to take another selfie...

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 weeks ago (6 children)

Set up a camera and then pretend you’re not your daughter’s mother but her playmate. I wonder what happens when she stops recording? It’s time for a nap. L has to be quiet so Birdie can scroll her phone and talk to her followers about how grateful she is for this time? This woman is, once again, making other moms feel they aren’t doing enough for their kid since they can’t take them on individual trips. I want moms to know the best 1:1 times come throughout the day - time in the car, a conversation while they are having a snack, getting them to help fold some laundry and you can have a chat. The best moments aren’t manufactured but come when you pay attention to your child every day and it isn’t some big event!

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Imagine setting up the camera to start jumping on the bed with your kid lmfao!!! Why is she pushing the narrative so hard of spending time with her child. That's what moms do. She's repulsive in every way. Not to mention the filters used during this video...even the walls are crooked..

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Maybe it’s because we’ve spent weeks, no months, talking about how all she does is sit on her ass after her busy days of hair appointments and taking photos in bikinis while her kid plays alone. She didn’t read it and take it to heart she’s worried her followers might of noticed too so she’s doing damage control. Sarah loves herself and praise.

Sure seems like she’s drying up! 🤞🏻

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago

This kid is going to grow up and as an adult need constant vacations, consumption and attention in order to be happy.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

But she’s acting like this is somehow her first opportunity in FOUR YEARS to have 1:1 time, yet she has no actual job. What a slap in the face to working parents that would love to be able to spend every day with their kids.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Her life is just one performance after another and this week she was playing the role of mother with a callback to her role as SI swim suit model. To join the two she added a little story about how she was on the phone telling her daughter she had made the cheer team right before she walked down the runway. To add colour to the story and make her extra special she recounted how her good friend, the famous model, was astounded how she juggles it all! 🤮

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 weeks ago

Hunter pays zero attention to Birdie. Just for the gram lol

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Love the picture for this post, lmao! Lucky for L she now has J to hang out with and who will actually pay attention to her. Wonder if she’ll still carry around the imaginary cat now that her sister is there.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

Bird sneaking a peek at her performance for the gram.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 weeks ago

Lol cringe!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Of course, she made her daughter's big day about herself, and she walked for SI that time. 🙄

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

She competes with her daughters and it’s disgusting! Let’s take a minute and think about all the opportunities that came her way after that life goal was achieved. I’m drawing a complete blank! In fact it seems she’s had fewer paying jobs during the last 12 months.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

How the other moms’s hang.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Do you think they’re all at the same hotel and Birdie is doing her best to avoid them?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 weeks ago

No I think they are somewhere else. Possibly not even on a Disney property 🤷‍♀️

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

I hope Bird gave them permission and inspired them to wear the two piece. I can't imagine what we would all do without her.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 weeks ago

Saw this photo! Thought the same thing 🤣I’m sure they find her very inspiring! I kinda want to comment on their phot and ask them what Sarah is like IRL. I’d love their take!!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

This was posted without a long winded bikini trauma story or any mentions of stretch marks 🤣 can you imagine!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 weeks ago

And not a single board short in sight

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 weeks ago

Lol right! Notice they are wearing bathing suits that fit their bodies... Birdshit looks awful in what she wears.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Is there nobody back at home to send her Chick content or is she over it already? Disney over everything.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago

We also haven’t seen any FaceTiming Shame content!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

These videos are no more than disgusting body checking and trying to show off how "small" she is. She's so gross and such a mind fuck.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I see right through these poses and hand placements. She's holding her stomach to mimic a small waist. ( Been there, done that ) Also in this picture you can clearly see her apron belly. This is why she places her fanny pack exactly over top her belly. She's all snake oil. Fake ass bitch through and through. Deceiving and disgusting!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 weeks ago

I can spot an ED from a mile away. Every single one of her poses is strategic - she’s a fucking fraud and her idiot fans are blind

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Lemon doing to her what we all want to do.

Wonder if she realizes that Lemon just wants her attention? Yet she just keeps yapping to her imaginary friends on her phone. And the video where she’s like “L’s fave thing to do is create chaos in the background of my videos!” This little girl is constantly begging for her attention yet she’s more consumed with her phone to realize it.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

You’re right! All kids want and need is time and attention from their parents to thrive. It’s no wonder this child has so many imaginary friends since she always sees her mother just talking to the phone. It broke my heart a little bit in the story where Birdie says a follower decoded something L said and it, of course, relates back to a movie. She’s being raised by screens.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 weeks ago

Also sad and scary that her followers can understand her daughter better than she can.

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