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The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

  • Be kind

  • Ask people what they think, and why

  • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility (EDIT: no, this is not specifically referring to Nazis. I get it, they're the first thing that comes to mind. I'm not telling you to approve of Nazis I'm just saying be kind to your fellow lemmites)

  • Engage sincerely

  • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

  • Make this small space worth being in

A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

We come in peace

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago

As I get older I have found that making my world smaller and focusing on the things I genuinely care about (and not the things I’m “supposed to” care about as a “good” man/American/worker etc) results in me being happier and more satisfied with life.

Lemmy is my close little corner of the internet. I hope that the fediverse grows ands takes over for the good of other people, but if it stays in this niche for another decade I’ll be happy because I already love it for what it is.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)

i hope the quality stays up and i guess that we're non-commercial might help with this; as we're not pushing people to use this platform; the people here are people who actually want to use this platform and i guess that in itself could do a good thing.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

i hope the quality stays up in here and we don't enshittify like reddit facebook and every other bigger internet network.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (39 children)

Sorry but right wingers aren't welcome here.

If (Republicans/Tankies/Fascists) want any voice here they can go get fucked.

If they acted in good faith and were capable of processing reality they wouldn't identify as such.

We need to accept they have had decades to self reflect and learn how reality works, and instead they choose to erase minorities because they make right wingers uncomfortable.

No, I'm done being nice.

They can stop supporting fascist movements the moment they want to be included, but if they don't then they've backed themselves into that corner.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Oh, not them. I suppose they meant among non-right wingers. I always found quite explicit they aren't welcome here. Not today, not ever.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Horseshoe theory is horseshit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

serious question but how do/could you formalize your rejection of right-wingers? what is it exactly that you take issue with?

i'm asking because i talk to a lot of people (also some who identify as "right-wingers") and i'd like to know what exactly are the issues that bother people, so i can forward it to them. it would help me bring up better arguments if i know what other people are thinking.

so, i've collected the following list of things to take issue with so far:

  • right-wingers often think that people who don't work, don't deserve to eat, which clearly puts enterpreneurial spirit above human life, which is clearly illegal
  • right-wingers often take brunt and direct actions, which can be uncomfortable to more sensitive people.
  • right-wingers typically neglect far-sightedness, seeking only short-term profits (looking at you, quarterly profit).

tell me if i forgot something.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

In America, right wingers support the republicans who have a verified track record of taking rights away, cheating elections and straight up lying. By refusing the see any other point of view, they reject open mindedness. They are unyielding in their beliefs and that is dangerous. It's whats led to the current affairs of the USA. Theyve been swindled for years. The thing I hate most of all is there core principle is hate. They hate minorities, immigrants, foreigners and gays. They always have some justification for it. "Gays are cross dressing and confusing my children. Gays are indecent. Minorities are abusing social programs. Jewish people are running criminal cabals. (Etc. etc.)

You'll have the "oh well I don't support THAT part of my political party but shrug nothing we can do 🙂" publicans but don't do anything or even CRITICIZE it. And those that try to refute these points either outright deny that its true or use whataboutism.

I will end this by saying I have right winger friends who are radicalizing away from me and I'm trying my hardest to show them that core beliefs of comraderie and compassion is far superior to the kool aid they're being forced fed by all major social media companies.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

actually let me think about it again:

IMO that somebody's always hateful is typically a sign of enormous psychological/emotional stress. so that tells me these people have a lot of problems, and probably don't know how to deal with the world. i wonder what education would do to them.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The basic problem is thinking that conquering somebody is natural, inevitable, or good.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

oh yes i forgot about canada and greenland somehow, sorry

actually i meant in general, like apart from the current situation with trump.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Right wing ideologies hinge on distracting people from their problems instead of solving them.

This arracts exclusively con men and dumb marks.

And the distractions they choose always end up being the erasure of minorities for some fucking reason.

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