If you deviate from the norm, don't expect the majority to tip-toe around your sensibilities.
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My partner, 6am without fail.
There's a sleep disorder, diurnal, common for people with adhd. Their brains don't wake up, start functioning til 6pm, wide awake all night.
I'm so careful, courteous at night, super quiet, walking softly... then 6am, morning people wake, stomping, slamming, music blasting. So not fair.
Tell me you've never lived above a bar without saying you've never lived above a bar
I owned one and conveniently had an apartment above it in the past.
With that perspective I tried keeping it not too noisy. Speakers facing in a way to prevent noise pollution to the outside, less bass on everything too. Central speakers also get to be louder while speakers close to the windows are not as loud. It's not ideal but it's much better than being entirely careless.
The customers at least tend to not be noisy unless it's karaoke night. They have some common decency where I live.
I went to an Airbnb in Milano, in which in the middle of it's block was literally a night club. Literally block residents and people who come to party enter and exit the same block door.
However, I didn't hear anything, they soundproofed the hell out of this place, and the culture isn't loud.
Then there's my fucking cunt of a housemate who lkves on the floor above me that's the loudest mother fucker on the face of the earth and fucking stomps around until 1am every night and opens and slams close every fucking draw and door in his room, and re arrnafes his furniture every night, then gets up at 6.30 in the morning so he can stomp around some more, hack up his lungs as loudly as humanly possible and slam every door in the fucking house before leaving for work exactly when my alarm goes off, specifically so I can't have a single good night sleep ever.
Sorry I may have some pent up anger.
I could have written this. I feel your pain.
Morning people, in my experience at least, firmly believe that night people are just morning people with insufficient self-discipline.
Lmao, 100%. I swear most folks I know believe being a night owl is simply a lack of self control, or they have a screw loose
sure it's a lack of self control, if i had better self control i could force myself to go to bed at 21:00 and lie there for 2 hours until i fall asleep out of tortured boredom, and then i could force myself out of bed at 07:00 despite my limbs feeling like lead and every movement bringing me abject misery and pain!