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I work in a strip club as a dancer. Happy to answer any questions

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

. Did it take any getting used to?

. What are some industry secrets?

. What type of person do strip clubs attract?

. I heard strip clubs can be pretty shady. Can you confirm?

. Where you invested in being an entertainer before this?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

At first yeah but that was when I was just a waitress. By the time I started dancing I was pretty comfortable

I dont know any real secrets

All kinds of people

Some of them are very shady

And no I didnt know what I wanted to do before this

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

How long do you plan on doing this? Is it a long term plan or a temporary thing? Most the strippers I've known have done it as a temporary side gig for some extra money. Isn't that what most strippers do? I can't imagine a 50 year old wrinkly woman being a stripper.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

For most its just a temporary thing yeah. But ive been dancing for like 6 years now and dont plan on stopping super soon. You can only do it for so long before your old but its not like I have an end date in mind right now

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Also, how old are you and what age did you get starded?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Im 24 now and was 18 when I started

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks for the response. This thread was very interesting to read as I'm in a similar field. I'm not a stripper but I am a dancer/actress. Although I have noticed that being a dancer does overlap sometimes. Other dancers and some of my friends have been strippers at one point. Some still are. I guess they do require the same amount of showmanship and athleticism.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

How did you find out about Lemmy?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Reddit was weird so I looked up sites like reddit and this came up

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Jesus. Titty. Fuckin. Christ.

Seriously? Am I gonna have to do it?

Fine....FML....take one for the team...


What's your favourite dinosaur 🦕🦖?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What perfumes get the best customer feedback?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Sorry didnt get notified for this for some reson. Black opium is like the best work perfume ever. Pink sugar is great. Pretty much anything from the Britney Spears or Ariana grande brands to

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

How much do you make and how does that play out? I assume nights and weekends are the big bucks?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Some nights I make $450 and some nights I make $150. Just depends if it’s a good night or a bad night. And yes weekends are when you want to work if you can

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's said that strip joints are the "canary in the coal mine" for upcoming recessions. I'm reading that a recession is coming, does that line up with what you're currently experiencing?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Not really. I mean there are good and bad seasons but I have always managed to make a living from this. And even in my best times ever there were a few nights I did shit

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Probably a dumb question given your username, but just to clarify:

Do you or do you not have moves like Jagger?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I do indeed move like Mick himself

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Excellent!

I hope all your clients can get some satisfaction from that, haha.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What's the entry point like for this as a profession? Did you jump right in with strip dancing or were you already a dancer or performer of some variety?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I was a topless waitress for a couple months while I was first learning pole work then I was okay enough they let me dance

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Interesting. Thanks for sharing.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What's the most dangerous situation you've been in while on the job at the club?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Nothing just super dangerous. A couple guys saying creepy thing or getting handsy but security is good at kicking them out

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is prostitution common? How has it varied at different clubs you’ve worked at?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago

Not uncommon but places I’ve worked extras are kinda left up to the dancers to decide for themselves if they give them. And some girls do meet up with customers after to escort

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Your bouncers taking care of you right?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Nice :)

Glad you're safe. It's a tough business sometimes, and the dancers need to have a shield so they can do what they do.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Have you ever spent time in a Turkish prison?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Joey, do you ever hang out in the YMCA locker room?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thanks for doing this AMA!

  1. How did you get your dancing to professional standard?
  2. How do you stay safe at work?
  3. How many amazing stripper shoes do you own? I've always loved them but absolutely can't walk in heels.
[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago
  1. Just practice practice practice on the pole 2. Our security guys are amazing and walk us to and from our cars and are good at kicking people out and I also have mace 3. TOO MANY OMG my closet is stacked up with so many platforms
[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

What is your favorite dinosaur?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago
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