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Discord was already succumbing to enshitification. Now with their intention to be owned by Wall Street, that trajectory will certainly accelerate at warp speed once the change of hands happens.

Anyone already get ahead of this and find a solid alternative?

Right now I'm on the fence between Element for Matrix, and Revolt. Both seem to have their pros and cons and I can't find a clear "winner".

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Matrix is nice, and you can have jitsi for calls integrated. It seems to be pretty popular; Lemmy has a field for matrix @ in user profiles. Never heard of revolt before.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I use Jitsi for a non-profit, and I like the mute someone else function, but oh wow the noise cancellation needs improvement. So many voice comm apps have disappeared (there used to be one our group used all the time, then the devs dropped it (the client app) and just became on API or something).

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Time to dust off my old Mumble server!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I was reading this thread and started looking for that app again.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I've also been comparing Element and Revolt. Both seem really solid, both are open source and both are self-hostable. Hard to find any downsides there.

There's a discord server that me and a bunch of friends use as our main hangout. They've raised the prospect of bailing before things enshittify, and of course I've been tasked with pitching a replacement. For my money, Revolt is the way I'm going to go, specifically because it's basically a one for one clone of Discord. The people I'm pitching this to are a mix of technical and non-technical, so I think something that looks and feels like what they're used to will be the easiest transition.

It also feels like Element is geared pretty heavily towards being a replacement for Slack / Teams rather than a replacement for Discord. Their pitch seems a lot more focused on the enterprise market. Revolt seems more focused on gaming, casual hangout, that sort of thing.

I like Element a lot, but for me it doesn't feel like the right solution to this specific problem. But if I was pitching something to my work as a Teams replacement, Element is definitely the way I'd go.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Silly question perhaps, but I haven't tripped across it on the site for Revolt -- is there a relatively straight forward server version for self-hosting, or is it just that the source is on github and you can compile it in theory if you feel like goin through that process... ?

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I've started my self-hosting journey having Matrix in mind - especially the Matrix bridges to cut off the need to use social media clients like Discord.

Today, I'm slowly convicting my friends to join my instance. So far, that's just one of the closest ones (still win for me).

I hope one day decentralization in social media would take off!

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

if discord is going public they don't need my turbo sub anymore

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Cancelled mine when they redesigned the mobile app anyway. I don't want a different interface on mobile vs desktop. I want a unified experience, which was their original purpose.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago

Matrix is the way. It's federated and you can have your own server.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Its been a while since I used Revolt, I use element everyday. But I'd prefer something more "third party" too. Revolt was servicable back in 2020, maybe it has gotten better?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (3 children)

That's a throwback. Let's take it one step further and just get back on Ventrilo and play some DOTA. (For the younger folks who don't get the reference: https://youtu.be/aTJncWndUB8 )

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I still have my copy. I cannot believe that song is like, 18 years old now. It was such a staple of my college experience.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Used to use Vent playing Eve Online 19 years ago. Worked great back then. Apparently it's still around, but still no Linux support after all these years.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I am certainly not one of the younger folks and had never seen that before. That is awesome, thank you for sharing.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Oh man, Basshunter was huge in the chronically-online gamer space in the 2000s. His other songs are pretty good too.

To put it in perspective, the fact that they're gaming on laptops and LCD monitors was an enviable flex when his songs released.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

Me and my brother are using teamspeak to this day.

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