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To be honest I thought tech bros are what you get when you fit into all of the boxes on both sides.
I am very confused, that this post was not by "FireflyWillNeverDieAndHeresWhy".
Smart home stuff is unfairly maligned. You just need a few basic rules and some hobby time.
- Don't buy wifi stuff.
- If it needs its own dedicated app, don't buy it.
- Don't buy smart appliances. If you want to smart up something expensive, get a cheap smart outlet or a cheap sensor that does the job.
- Use an open source platform like Home Assistant, not Google or Alexa or whatever.
- When you find something it can't do that you want it to do, write some Python code and make it open source. You'll get so much love from the community for the simplest things. Also the occasional person that angrily wants to know why your free thing doesn't support his hyper specific use case but you can safely ignore that.
Can you recommend brands that sell smart devices that fulfill those requirements? Home assistant sounds like a fun hobby to get into but I'm wary of spending 99% of the time in web searches for what to buy instead of hours in web searches for tinkering.
It's easier to shop for protocols and standards instead of brands. If you get a Zigbee dongle from Sonoff or SMLight and set it up with Home Assistant, 99% of devices marketed as Zigbee will work and you'll know for a fact they don't have Internet access and can't really do anything that would be bad for your network security because that's just not how the Zigbee standard works. This is where I would recommend starting.
If you plan on getting a lot of things, or think you might eventually, I would recommend getting both Zigbee and Zwave. There's also Thread now but I don't have much experience there yet. These are the standards that smart devices can use, with low power, to communicate without needing direct wifi access or anything. Each has their drawbacks in terms of how many devices you can use and their range. Again, this recommendation is only if you plan on going big at some point, but if you get zwave devices where you can, and focus on Zigbee for things like lighting, you'll be able to blend the standards together and have less chance of running into interference or device limit problems. But here I'm talking about when you get over around 50 devices, if you don't plan on doing that then it's not really a concern.
When it comes to research, I would recommend reserving research time for the devices that have to be wifi. If you want cameras, for example, you'll want to make sure you pick good ones that can be blocked from external access and properly secured. If you want to control a garage door or an appliance or something big like that, there's much easier and cheaper ways than getting a smart appliance.
This is super helpful, thanks!
Home assistant is the shit. I’ve got lighting automations based on time of day and via motion sensors within specific timeframes.
Many sensors. Motion, climate, humidity, you name it.
Home theater automations. If I want to watch something, I tell voice assistant (Siri in this case) “turn on home theater.” It turns on the TV, receiver, and Apple TV, and uses the receiver’s API to switch the input to the media input. When I hit play on a video it turns off the living room lights, and if I pause or stop the video it turns them back on.
It has monitoring for all my thermostat sensors, solar, batteries, keeps track of my fridge and freezer temperatures, list goes on.
It also fully supports zigbee antennas and Bluetooth devices over Wi-Fi with simple esp32 Bluetooth extender configs. HAOS is just an outstanding piece of software.
I got a motion sensor set up to blink inside lights instead of a door bell. I now know every time there's a cat or bird on the porch...
There's so much you can do. If I wanted to I could even make it monitor my Steam Deck's battery.
I feel weirdly caught, because I had a time during college when I could actually say "the usual please" in our local subway (the restaurant not the transportation vehicle).
Also I did program on the calculator in like 7th grade and studied mythological origins of witches and their bogs last month for a d&d round.
Not that big of an innovator, though.
If I had not moved several kilometers away from my favourite bar, I swear some of the baristas would be communicating with me in grunts by now.
There was a period where me stepping in was followed by "The usual?" and a couple of times when they saw me out smoking just as the bar opened, so they just poured it without even asking me, as there was little point.
Life is too short to drive a Hyundai and eat the same meal every day though. Unless the Hyundai is one of their more performant EV models, in which case it can at least be fun.
studied mythological origins of witches and their bogs
Say more. Asking for ... Umm ... A friend. Yes, I have those.
Okay first of I actually meant hags not witches in general. (There is apparently a difference)
I found some weird ways of reproducing in DnD-hags, which I wanted to rework.
They reproduce (among other things) by devouring an infant and then giving birth to it... Yes, classical DnD.
I devised a method of hags coming to live in bogs as manifestations of people who died there.
Parts of the souls then make up the character of the hag or become multiple hags with different personalities. Hence some hags may be friendly to strangers wanting to pass their bog unharmed and others try to "devour" them by killing them in their bog.
(That is the gist of it)
I kept requesting the transportation subway travel to my stop until one day I forgot to ask and it still arrived at my stop. That's when I understood what it felt like to fit in.
I've worked as a software developer but it's not my strength. But the spreadsheet (and buying a Hyundai) rings so very true. My life is in spreadsheets, from my finances to my holiday plans to my meal planning...
This hit too close to home. I've been eating at the same place for the past three years, I just say "hi" and go to my usual table now.
Also the spider anatomy. I've explained the origin of Hotwheels sisyphus at least ten times now
Both of these people sound insufferable. (And I'm autistic)
a little rude considering one of them isn't actively hurting anyone
I will fully admit I'm more than a "little" rude on this account. This the account I use the vent my depression, self-loathing, and misanthropy. Maybe sometimes I'm nice on here as a treat.
no hate just calling ya out :)
Where can I get that open source pony-themed RPG dating sim?
Money talks, wealth whispers dont only apply to financials...
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