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[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Reddit is for Porn. I got my year-thing and scrolled for 2 million bananas. I’m only subscribed to Porn and have been clicking on 1 or 2 things from MapPorn that got suggested to me while browsing through the ad-infested home feed. Have a guess on what they said was the post I liked more than the "The Gorilla Grip and Twist 5000“ I’ve spent months watching.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 10 months ago

I'd prefer it if Lemmy didn't go mainstream. Reddit went down the toilet once it did.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Or at least, if you visit reddit, don't click on any ads or contribute in a meaningful way. In addition, never directly link to reddit. In a way, all your actions that affect reddit in any way should be to the detriment of reddit. It's like trying to cut down a sequoia with a sharp pebble, but even small livestock shits.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Who clicks ads? I don't think I've ever clicked a single ad on purpose

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago

It's just a lot of work to filter the commie/socialist/libtard nonsense. Once you get most of the propaganda sludge blocked, it's actually pretty decent.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago

Stop. Bypassing. Our. Filters. Please.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Some of you who are complaining Lemmy are seeing though rose-tinted glasses about what reddit was like back in the day. The majority of the site was never good, and it had always had plenty of embarassing/messed up things on there that you had to sift through, but it's a different, sterile kind of bad now.

Here are a couple of reminders of what reddit was actually like, in no particular order.

  • Ron Paul
  • Faces of Atheism, "Euphoric"
  • AdviceAnimals, Rage Comics
  • Spacedicks
  • r/jailbait
  • The entire Boston bomber saga

This is why I would never admit to using reddit in public, and until recent years, I would imagine most people won't.

So if anyone complains about how the current content on Lemmy is driving people away, remember, Lemmy is positively TAME compared to this supposedly "Golden Era" of reddit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Reddit Atheists make me wish there was a God

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

honestly it's replaced reddit for me in a good way, because it has just enough new content that I can check it before bed every day and scroll for a bit, but not enough to where I spend entire lunch breaks on it. sometimes I go days without even checking it. if anything it's made my relationship with my browser / phone healthier than reddit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Exactly. Lemmy is an anti-doomscrolling platform and that's very healthy and amazing.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I somehow replaced reddit with instagram reels and youtube shorts.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Ah, they got ya by the dopamine balls

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah they do. Would you believe me if i said giving up social media is harder than giving up nicotine?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Give yourself some grace, yes corporate social media is addictive and yes it is easy to get lost mindlessly scrolling but the important question to ask is why is your brain so exhausted and stressed that mindlessly scrolling is the only thing you really have the mental energy to do so much of the time?

Western society repeatedly slams through the narrative that social media addiction is the reason people are miserable and it is all a pathetic attempt to distract us from the fact that our lives suck because of actual horrible things like not being able to afford rent, being in endless debt, not being able to afford healthcare and any number of other awful stresses.

If you need to blob out and scroll after getting out of your shitty job that pays shit where you are treated like shit and sitting in shitty traffic on the way home for who knows how long that’s on society for only providing predatory options that abuse you.

For a lot of people the only thing they actually have the energy to do after work every night is mindlessly scroll, it is a grace that people at least have that to turn to even if it is predatory. It is a symptom not the core issue.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Honestly, good. The Internet was better when people were spread out across many small message board and chat rooms. The golden age of the Internet was when you'd do a search for something and 500 different forms and little websites would pop up.

Now's it's all reddit, "X," and shitty corporate owned nonsense. We turned 2020 Internet into 90's cable TV.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Reddit is like that ex the whole lemmy isn't over yet while loudly drunkenly screaming "I'm so over them!".

Advice: focus on yourself and your content.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Bruh you've only ever posted once, you should focus on trying to make content and posting it on lemmy, instead of criticizing those of us who are.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Most of the stuff you post is low quality shite mate not "content" it's mainly 99% vague political memes. this shite makes up 90% of lemmy

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

You literally repost AI generated images, you dont even possess the originality to come up with your own prompt Lmao and you've never even made a post with over 1k upvotes. Git gud

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago

Dont care, dude implied nonone cares about my posts, thousands of upvotes beg to differ. Cringe or notz i post shit people engage with.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I mean, would you call this post 'content'? It's just low-effort, non-discussion-provoking, nothingness about a platform that nobody around here cares about anymore (except you apparently?)

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Says the user with zero posts. And all the people upvoting it apparently do. Bahahaha

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

What can we do to get you to go back to Reddit?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago

Not a damn thing. Zero posts not surprised. Reddit definitely doesnt miss you.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Total monthly posts exploded after Spez enshitified Reddit, and is still growing steadily month over month.

That suggests that the current decline in monthly active users is primarily because lurkers who only came to lemmy after initially hearing about it on Reddit, went back to lurking Reddit.

The number of users that are contributors is still growing, and that’s what’s important.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

I'm still lurking here!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm still seeing so much growth in new content and communities, idk if the raw number of users is the metric we even should care about. Is it the best measure of quality?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

I also think a big part of it is how active users are counted. Saw in a different thread that it only counts accounts who have commented or posted in the last month. Well.. I browse and vote on probably an average of 30-50 posts and many of their comments every single day, but the last comment I left was over a month ago.

I also wonder if the active user count is counting people who made multiple accounts across different instances and was therefore always massively overinflated to begin with. I have 5 lemmy accounts - one on lemmy.world when I first joined, one on lemmynsfw for happy fun times, and 3 more trying to find a different instance with the de federation policy and hoster that I wanted after lemmy.world was going through their ddos downtime issue.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Thanks for the positive news!!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

There’s also folks like me who came, 15 years on Reddit and I haven’t been back.

Those of us who actually interacted with the platform and left aren’t going back.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

I'm close to that too, but I think mine was 13 years. The weird thing that I've noticed is that most of the time I was on Reddit, almost no one I talked to in real life used Reddit. I struggled for years to try to get people to check the site out. Now that I left, I swear I hear someone I know mention Reddit exponentially more often. The average person doesn't give a damn about how shitty the platform has become, because they weren't around to see what it used to be. The average person WANTS to see ads interspersed with their cookie cutter content with stupid ass features like chat and followers. Good riddance.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Yep, arrived during the initial digg exodus, had tens of thousands of posts at Reddit, modded two subreddits. Closed my account the day during the protests and haven’t been back.

I’m not as active here, mostly due to a busier life but found a new home anyway.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Smaller communities aren't necessarily a bad thing. Compared to reddit I rarely feel like I'm commenting into the void.