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[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago

Always cart corral or reserved police parking.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I leave the carts that I find near the handicapped spots, as I know when my back goes out I really appreciate having a cart to lean on. I think it's common for a cart to be a sort of crutch.

My own carts I take back to the store unless I'm way at the end of the lot. If it's raining or something, always back to the store. I'm already wet, and I don't wanna make someone trudge out in the wet any longer than necessary.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago

At first I read "I leave my cart in the handicapped spots"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

Lol I put shopping cart inside the White lines of the parking spot not in the line like a responsible person

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (6 children)

This is such a weak post. You really wanna be a good steward of carts? Get one from the corral on the way in instead of using one from the inside. Especially if it's not out of the way. Make the cart retriever's job even easier. Especially on super hot/cold days.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I do this, not because I'm courteous but because if I take one from the outdoor corrals I don't have to wait behind three grannies slowly selecting carts from the inside corral.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It doesn't matter what the reasoning is. The net effect is positive.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

It's important to maintaining my self-image as a cool and aloof guy that you know I'm not doing the nice thing out of the goodness of my heart.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

No problem, Han Solo.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

This is the way.

Also, by taking a cart from the corral and bringing it in with you, you’re actively modeling a virtuous behavior you hope people emulate, which does more to correct the problem than whining online about it.

But it does make me wonder about us sometimes. How did we get this way? How did “Fuck everybody else; got mine” become the default way Americans think? Am I the weird one for being raised to be thoughtful about these kinds of choices?

I don’t claim to be perfect. I’ve had bad days when I take advantage that permissiveness-inconsiderateness that I see around me all the time, but I always know that it’s wrong, and that I’m doing an inconsiderate thing, but that my frustration affords me the grace to be selfish about this one thing.

One of the Academy Award nominated short films this year is Instruments of a Beating Heart, about a class of Japanese first-grade students preparing to perform Ode to Joy for the new first year students that will take their places. It’s primarily about the struggle of one girl, but set against the backdrop of Japanese grade school life, student responsibility and expectation-setting for young humans experiencing their first non-familial social environments. It made me think “Well, at least these kids are going to be alright.”

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

The most generous explanation I can get is that people who don't put them in the corrals think they're not as bad as other people not leaving them in the corrals because "hey, at least I put it on the curb," or "hey, at least I didn't didn't leave it in the handicap area," or "hey, at least I didn't put it on a slope so it won't hit any cars," etc.

I also think there is just a ton of classism here. A lot of people feel better by belittling others. I think on some level the working class realizes they're being taken advantage of, but rather than taking it out in those above them they make others feel lower than themselves. "I am a hard worker. I put in 60 hours a week. My body wasted away. I am honorable for doing this to support my family. I am not lazy. I have skills. Minimum wage workers at the shopping center are lazy and have no skills. I am doing them a favor. I will not stoop to their level by performing such tasks." I think it makes working class people feel like royalty to belittle other working class people they view as less than themselves.

I don't know how it got like this. I can make guesses all day long but I really don't know.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Cart retriever ? Why is that even a job.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Because otherwise the parking lot would just be a mess of carts randomly left everywhere.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Yea, no such thing in my country. Practically everyone returns the cart.

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[–] [email protected] -3 points 4 days ago (4 children)

I'll never understand people who make doing free labor for a corporation some sort of top tier ethical standard.

Not lttering, following traffic rules, there are so many small ways we make our society better and yet people get so worked up over the one that is providing free labor.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

Thank you!! I upvoted away one of your down votes. You have said what I was thinking!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

Um, not free labor. Preventing that cart from damaging cars

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

Sounds like we've got a lazybones on our hands.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Not lttering

What do you think leaving a cart in a random spot is if not littering?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

There is a specific place you are supposed to put the thing when you're done with it. It's basically littering to do otherwise.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Yes clearly that's exactly the same as throwing trash around at a park /s

[–] [email protected] -1 points 4 days ago

basically

exactly

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago
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