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Am I projecting? What do you think, fellow lemmings?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

It is and if you can't see it it's because you are being dragged down too.

I'm going to remark something nobody seem to be focusing on. Humans didn't evolve 1 million years to eat processed food and be around artificial everything.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago (3 children)

All honesty, I tend to be optimistic to a fault and try really hard to be cheerful.

Everything starts to crack once socioeconomics comes up. The news lately is all about how everything is about to get worse. "This is collapsing, that's more expensive, getting a slice of diminishing wages is going to be even harder now! They're cracking down here and forcing ads there." Etc etc.

When I'm knee-deep in fixing up my servers or making art or being with my people, everything is just peachy!

But yeah, "How next money tho?" Usually starts the mental downward spiral.

I love living, can do a ton of things, love learning, but I don't get along with churning out a repetitive task for increasingly worthless currency.

The world outside of what I'm choosing to do feels entirely impossibly out of our control. So I try to balance being informed with staying sane.

Like damn I don't need much, can't folk just be left alone? Lol

Wonder if a lot of people feel like I do?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

oh yeah I certainly do. I mean even the churning would not be so bad if there was any indication it would end.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Climate change is getting worse and the world in general is sliding into fascism. The odds of things getting better in our lifetimes is very low. I'm only happy when I'm focusing on what's around me and not the big picture, because the big picture is bleak.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Who are you referring to as "the whole world", specifically? People on Lemmy? Leftists? Your friends IRL?

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

sound's like a western leftist problem for me

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Everyone seems to be doomscrolling

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Seems like mostly just people in the west because western world order is now visibly collapsing.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (4 children)

America is not the Western world.

It does, however, control a lot of the Western World's media, and there's a clear agenda to make people frightened.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

The US is at the centre of western world order. The rest of the west is tied to the states ideologically, politically, economically, and militarily. The global hegemony that the US created in the 90s is now starting to unravel and that's having a negative economic impact on all western countries. Europe in particular has been hit very hard. And hence we're seeing political discontent running all across the west.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (11 children)

I'm just waiting to die at this point. Fuck this life. Fuck this world. I'd kill myself if I wasn't such a pussy. I keep living with the vague hope that things might get better, but deep down I already know it won't.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I see that you've posted a few new things in the last hour or so; hope this means you're feeling a little better about things.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm fine, just needed to vent my deep down feelings. Thank you.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Nothing like shrews and coffee to get your mind off things πŸ˜‰πŸ‘

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Have to focus on what's around you that you have control over.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

If you ever feel very down, make sure to channel your hatred of the world back out at the world, rather than inwards at yourself. Maybe you'll help make it a bit better <3

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Start skateboarding πŸ›Ή, it helps.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I'd say you have issues that have little to do with the news. Talk to a counselor.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

πŸ™Please don't say that.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Thank you for giving a shit about me. ❀️

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Hugs for you, buddy. <3 the world's better with you in it.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You can find people in a good mood, but not on Lemmy :P

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

πŸ‘I envy you and applaud you at the same time (being serious here, not snarking).

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thank you. I found that if I don't doomscroll and just look up subjects I like.. Then easier to be on good mood.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If I may, Arts & Letters Daily has a lot of interesting links that generally aren't too overly tied to current events, and can provide a nice break from the world as usual. Aeon is also good.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I'll check that out. Thank you!!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Been outside or watched the news lately. What’s there to be in a good mood about?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

Idk, some leftist people (including minorities) are energized and motivated, so it’s important not to get stuck in some weird self-defeating trap. Political up and downs happen every generation. Don’t fall for the doomer BS, it’s important to keep following through with your personal goals and persevere. Find a community and volunteer, take care of each other.

Ultimately people should seek to close gaps with others, and try to find common ground, while acknowledging that there are some values which cannot be compromised, like sacrificing someone’s humanity and (personal/psychological) safety.

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