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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Pet jumping spider.

Honestly 10 star pet. They eat a small bug every other day or so. They look adorable. They will recognize and react to you, and you can even train them to accept handling. They come in a wide variety of colors.

Downsides are that you'll probably end up getting more than one (do NOT co-hab them!), or that they only live for 1-3 years. If you enjoy having the spider though, you can look into other arthropods like tarantulas, or vinegaroons (which look scary, but are harmless and have very sweet dispositions).

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

Converting $20 to local currency, I'd probably go with this:

This is so-called "Liubao Tea", a kissing cousin to pu'er tea. I did a review of my first batch(es) and it has rapidly (literally with one round of brews) reached the top of my circulation in teas.

The depicted tea is one aged from 1991 (the one I reviewed was tea stems from 2003) and is of one of the higher grades. A 100g package will set you back about $15 or so at today's exchange rate. 100g is about 15-20 servings, and each serving can be brewed multiple times (even my tea stems can be brewed four times without loss of flavour), so it's quite the bargain.

Save it for a time when you really need something warm, rich, and comforting. It will last forever as long as you store it in a cool, dry, dark space. And personally I think it's a bargain at 15 bucks.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Ah yes, the most convenient of currencies - dried leaf.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

What methods do you use to dry the tea leaves and stems after each brew?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

Silk pillow case. Good for skin and hair.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That really depends on the gin.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Park Alpine Dry Gin

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Fluffy stuffed animal. If I didn't have a couple stuffed kitties to hug I probably would have killed myself already. Nice to have something to pretend loves you

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The Lady we got ours from isn't showing up at the farmer's marker anymore, but for well under $20, you can make your own corn pillow

This winter's been bad for deep freezes and 4 minutes in the microwave will keep my corn pillow hot for an hour or more.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

when I was younger, my family used dry rice. I wonder which works better.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Some Warmies are under $20 too. My son freaked out when I started to put his cute new kitty in the microwave haha

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