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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
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- Both “200” and “160” are 2 minutes in microwave math
- When you’re a kid, you don’t realize you’re also watching your mom and dad grow up.
- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
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This is mostly copied from my reply to another comment:
Parents get tired. In fact, most parents have chronic levels of sleep deprivation which impairs things like concentration, reflexes, ability to pay attention, etc. Then you have parents who might be working multiple jobs, be dealing with health issues that affect sleep, etc. A leash would make that job to keep kids safe much easier.
No leash equals a non-abusive, even though not every situation can allow a parent to keep 100% focus on the child, but using a leash the parent suddenly becomes abusive?
Should a parent not give the kid a helmet when learning to ride a bike then also? Does using a helmet mean the parent is abusive?
I just don't understand this. I cannot fathom that someone would criticize a thing that objectively and provably make life in the world safer for children. It's just another tool to help kids get to grow up.
There are countless stories of children just walking away in the 3 to 5 seconds a parent looks away where the child falls off a height, falls into water (not every parent can swim, and not all waters are swimable), gets picked up by a stranger in a crowd, etc. Situations that a leash would 100% have saved the child's life.
And when these people are confronted on why it's abusive or "embarrassing for the child", they don't have an answer.
They might say something out of left field like "children aren't dogs!", to which I say "yes, you're right. Children aren't dogs. Very good! Now about the leash, why is it abusive?"
I’ve never broken a bone, but I did get a dislocated elbow once when I was quite young, maybe 2 or 3. I was a dumb stubborn kid who threw a tantrum in the middle of a street and my mom had to grab me by the arm and drag me to safety. I fought her so hard I dislocated my elbow. I’m not sure if a leash would have made that situation more manageable, but I wouldn’t have blamed my parents for trying it. Sometimes kids go through a feral animal phase and you just have to deal with it however you can.
Yup, that's called nurse maid's elbow. It's incredibly common. It's almost always caused by a kid trying to yank themselves away. And it happens because at that young the tendons aren't strong enough to hold that amount of weight/tension.
And putting it back is an easy process, if you know how to do it. Pain almost immediately goes away, though they need to be in a sling.
Not true, my son got nurse maid's elbow. He was crying almost non-stop for 5 hours between it happening to the doctor walking into the doctor's room. The instant the doctor manipulated his arm he stopped crying and it was like nothing happened.
Typically, the sling is to reduce the chance of repeat injury, not for pain.
Well according to the doc that's not a concern unless the same force is applied again.
I’ve taken care of too many toddlers, I guess to trust that.
But I have taken care of too many toddlers to trust that they keep it on consistently, as well.