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What is Neurodivergence?

It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned


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2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence

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I fucking hate these people so much.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

the reality and pain of a subset of parents of children with autism who feel left out of much of the conversation around the condition.

If anything they are always dominating the conversation despite being in the minority of autism cases. I understand it's hard for them, but it's not all about you and you're talking over autistic adults who should be heard more.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If anything they are always dominating the conversation despite being in the minority of autism cases. I understand it's hard for them, but it's not all about you and you're talking over autistic adults who should be heard more.

we had a nonverbal kid on the school bus one year and it was really cool of his parents and the school system to abuse that kid and by extension everyone else on the bus route on top of school starting too damn early in the morning. I'm not even sure if low-support adults are able to be effective advocates for the kids who have it the worst.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Someone does need to advocate for them, I don't think their parents are qualified either. "Autism parents" seem so arrogant and self-centered

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

for sure i'm just aware our needs are quite different and part of the problem is not being able to ask

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