Men's Liberation
This community is first and foremost a feminist community for men and masc people, but it is also a place to talk about men’s issues with a particular focus on intersectionality.
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Recommended Reading
- The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, And Love by bell hooks
- Politics of Masculinities: Men in Movements by Michael Messner
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Because there are so many male dominated spaces? There are women-only gyms because many gyms have mostly men working out. Look at any basketball court in a park and count the number of women playing. There's always random dudes, but very few women. Look at any soccer field, baseball field, BBQ area, etc. These are huge public areas devoted mostly to things men want to do.
I say this as a dude who enjoys all of that. If women want their own baseball league or running club or whatever, it literally doesn't hurt me at all. Men don't need "men only" spaces because that's still the default for everything now. If some women show up to play basketball, that's totally fine. They may not be as strong but there are plenty of smaller dudes playing too. It makes no sense to exclude them.
You only mention physically intensive activities. Some men may have different interests.
You're entirely correct, this guy's 'need' is completely isolated to himself, it's not a universal - I've never asked myself "wouldn't this be better if there were fewer women?", absolutely never occurred to me even.
he wants gender exclusivity because being around women makes him uncomfortable. Well buddy, that's not how society works lol. Maybe move to Oman or Qatar if they want genders defined like that.
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
Some dudes are just not comfortable around women, and they all seem to be downvoting comments. The funny thing is, these dudes would probably be thrown out of most "male" spaces (sports bars, basketball courts, weightlifting gyms) for being nuts.
So why would it make sense to exclude men?
Also, I'm not the best person to argue about it, since I personally don't really like male-only settings so I would not speak from my own experience. And in general I think our society profits more from mixed settings since they help to normalize relations between genders.